Having a boyfriend? Embarrassing. Having a lover? CHIC.
Perfecting the art of having a lover
The Diary of a Lover Girl
The Diary of a Lover Girl by Blithe Saxon
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He was never going to leave. He just removed 'us' from his vocabulary.
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