# The Diary of a Lover Girl The Diary of a Lover Girl by Blithe Saxon Page: Feed: --- ## [Having a boyfriend? Embarrassing. Having a lover? CHIC.](https://blithesaxon.substack.com/p/having-a-boyfriend-embarrassing-having) _2026-08-17 · Blithe Saxon_ Perfecting the art of having a lover ## [I broke my sobriety on a yacht in St Tropez after three years sober](https://blithesaxon.substack.com/p/i-decided-to-start-drinking-again) _2026-08-12 · Blithe Saxon_ Turns out all I needed was a martini and an orgasm ## [Why can't I get over the almost?](https://blithesaxon.substack.com/p/why-cant-i-get-over-the-almost) _2026-07-08 · Blithe Saxon_ A birthday, a wedding, and the child I never had ## [I spent years romanticising people who felt too much. Turns out there is nothing romantic about a mind that won’t let you rest.](https://blithesaxon.substack.com/p/i-spent-years-romanticising-people) _2026-06-15 · Blithe Saxon_ ADHD and depression diaries. Written, unfiltered, from inside the wreckage. ## [I thought I knew everything about heartbreak.](https://blithesaxon.substack.com/p/i-thought-i-knew-everything-about) _2026-06-02 · Blithe Saxon_ Heartbreak is a fucking expensive therapy bill. ## [A letter to my younger sister on her 25th birthday](https://blithesaxon.substack.com/p/a-letter-to-my-younger-sister-on) _2026-05-14 · Blithe Saxon_ Every year I write my sister a birthday letter ## [I have never been the chill girl.](https://blithesaxon.substack.com/p/i-have-never-been-the-chill-girl) _2026-05-10 · Blithe Saxon_ A petition to bring back yearning ## [How to become the crazy ex-girlfriend](https://blithesaxon.substack.com/p/how-to-become-the-crazy-ex-girlfriend) _2026-05-05 · Blithe Saxon_ Everything you should do after a breakup if you want to stay stuck and appear spectacularly unwell. ## [I finally ran into THE ex. And I felt nothing.](https://blithesaxon.substack.com/p/i-finally-ran-into-the-ex-and-i-felt) _2026-04-11 · Blithe Saxon_ I once called him 'the best man I’ve ever known.' Eleven months later, I ran into him on the street and realised he's just a man. ## [30 things I learned by 30](https://blithesaxon.substack.com/p/30-things-i-learned-by-30) _2026-03-24 · Blithe Saxon_ I wish I'd known these things in my twenties ## [Earn crypto for idle GPUs (Sponsored)](https://crawlproof.com/a/AfJgFdqIMbjE) _2026-03-24 · **Sponsored**_ Run one CLI, host Qwen/Llama/Mistral, and earn BTC, ETH, SOL, or USDC ## [Getting your shit together is fucking boring](https://blithesaxon.substack.com/p/getting-your-shit-together-is-fucking) _2026-03-13 · Blithe Saxon_ I used to fall in love with strangers. Now I commit petty crimes just to feel something. ## [Am I a bad feminist because I won't split the bill?](https://blithesaxon.substack.com/p/is-splitting-the-bill-the-new-feminist) _2026-02-22 · Blithe Saxon_ Softness, chivalry, and the audacity to choose ## [Yes, I'm a feminist. No, I won't split the bill.](https://blithesaxon.substack.com/p/yes-im-a-feminist-no-i-wont-split) _2026-02-17 · Blithe Saxon_ Arguing with men about the bill? In this economy? ## [It Wasn’t Sex. I Wanted to Be Seen.](https://blithesaxon.substack.com/p/i-didnt-see-it-as-cheating-he-wasnt) _2026-02-03 · Blithe Saxon_ On invisibility, attention, and the things we do before we admit we’re lonely. ## [He was never going to leave. He just removed 'us' from his vocabulary.](https://blithesaxon.substack.com/p/he-was-never-going-to-leave-he-just) _2026-01-26 · Blithe Saxon_ How language revealed the end before we could admit it ## [The cost of knowing my worth](https://blithesaxon.substack.com/p/the-cost-of-knowing-my-worth) _2026-01-14 · Blithe Saxon_ I remember thinking a better woman than me would’ve left already. ## [2026 Ins & Outs: Lover Girl Edition](https://blithesaxon.substack.com/p/2026-ins-and-outs-lover-girl-edition) _2026-01-01 · Blithe Saxon_ ... And what 2025 taught me about love ## [Hot girls need to stop dating losers.](https://blithesaxon.substack.com/p/hot-girls-need-to-stop-dating-losers) _2025-12-29 · Blithe Saxon_ How brilliant women keep validating men who don’t deserve it. ## [I'm spending Christmas by myself this year](https://blithesaxon.substack.com/p/im-spending-christmas-by-myself-this) _2025-12-22 · Blithe Saxon_ Here’s why Christmas and I are breaking up ## [Collect Open Source Legends (Sponsored)](https://crawlproof.com/a/42JVWe8udZU7) _2025-12-22 · **Sponsored**_ Open-licensed art, limited foil trading packs, and optional on-chain mints. ## [The Luteal Phase is Trying to Kill Me](https://blithesaxon.substack.com/p/the-luteal-phase-is-trying-to-kill) _2025-12-11 · Blithe Saxon_ Premenstrual Psychosis: when my hormones, heartbreak and period join forces