Inside the Threshold, Hating It
On labor, the newborn trenches, and what to do when you can't surrender yet
How We Come Back: Field Notes on Returning to What Matters
How We Come Back is a newsletter that explores what it means to live in rhythm with the seasons, reclaim ritual and community, and use what we have (our time, our land, our resources) to help build something more regenerative
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You Don't Just Move to the Country. You Surrender to it.
On the gap between arriving and being known
We Grew up in the Unraveling
Perhaps we missed some good times, but we were made for these ones.
You cannot build reciprocal community while running a one-woman show
On overfunctioning, child consciousness, and why the truth is the most connecting thing you can do
I don’t want to disappear. I want to choose where I am seen.
a question I asked at a 40th birthday party and the communal answer that reframed the portal
I read the news, then I cooked dinner
on consciously refusing to withdraw from this cultural moment
When Everything Slows
Living and farming through the deep freeze of winter
Circles are how we stay human
Why gathering women has always been part of resisting what dehumanizes us
What happens after the circle ends
Why closing, integration, and aftermath matter more than we think
Power exists in circles whether we name it or not
& why pretending otherwise causes harm
What we owe the people we gather
On community, responsibility, and doing women’s work without performance
What If No One Comes?
and why you don't have to invite everyone you know to your gathering
Year Two of Land Stewarding: What We Actually Did
An honest record of building a regenerative farm
Community building is not convenient
and that is the very reason it works
When hosting feels hard
a farm story + why creating community hurts sometimes, yet always matters.
The winter I finally stopped waiting
a little story about building community in a new place
Harbingers 🐞
When ancient instincts meet a changing world
What it means to be ready now
How you can prepare for collapse (without becoming a prepper)
Loving a Man in a Patriarchal World
(Even When I’m Mad at Him)
To Save a Seed
Remembering that life wants to live