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How to Be Good to Yourself When You're Hard on Yourself

A clinical psychologist cuts through the noise to bring you what works for social anxiety, perfectionism, and adjacent modern worries. Also dumb GIFs. More at ellenhendriksen.com

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Is it anxiety? Is it ADHD? Why we feel like we have both, plus how to tell the difference.

If Dan Harris sent you from Ten Percent Happier, welcome!

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The weird things we do when we’re lonely (PART TWO: Pulling away)

And more low-lift shifts to try instead

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The weird things we do when we’re lonely (PART ONE: Trying too hard)

And low-lift shifts to try instead

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Good news: You don't have to work so hard to make friends

Four circumstances that do the heavy lifting for you

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Why the people we barely know help us feel connection and belonging (and fulfill needs friends can't)

In praise of acquaintances

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What if your social anxiety is fight, not flight?

What to do when anxiety makes you guarded, irritable, or plain old grumpy.

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Getting unstuck when perfectionism hijacks your job search

Control what you can, and radically de-personalize the rest

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How to disagree without making it weird

Or being fake, a jerk, or a doormat

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Why We Struggle to Receive Love

Love may be all around us, but it won’t matter unless we can receive it.

3 healthier alternatives to “I don’t care what people think.”

Spoiler: what do *you* think?

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