The last message he ever sent me
Grief has a way of rearranging who gets access to you
She is me
Learning and unlearning what it means to be her.
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I’m a proud cat lady.
And no, not the stereotype people often imagine.
Hopefulness
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Reclaiming my voice through Mrs New Zealand
Last fortnight I was blessed to be crowned Mrs New Zealand 2026 and Mrs Globe International 2026.
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Trigger warning: This piece contains references to substance use, addiction, and death. Please read with care.
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When attachment feels like love.
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Protecting your peace is an act of strength.
If You’re Not Expressing It, You’re Carrying It
Pain is not the enemy, it’s the messenger