Let's Marry Harry : green lights & red flags
Thoughts on character, exes, intimacy, and asking for what you need
Leah Carey, Relationship Coach
Helping you break free from high-control childhoods — whether it’s Purity Culture, narcissistic abuse, cults, or just growing up in a bat-shit crazy patriarchy.
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Latest posts
The Ultimatum : Is Hayley really the problem?
How emotional abuse can make healthy reactions look irrational
He Asked Twice
Why consent is more complicated than “yes means yes”
Why So Many Women Say They’ve Been Raped — and So Few Men Know a Rapist
With yesterday’s deeply unnerving news about the Rape Academy (even typing those words makes me want to crawl out of my skin and go somewhere to die), I think we need to have a conversation about what “rape” is.
Apparently, I’m That Friend
Which is confusing, because I don’t think of myself that way at all
Why it’s easier to protest a king than confront a friend
We carry signs only when it’s someone we can afford to lose
Why MAGA wants you to blanket train your child
My conversation with Tia Levings about teaching children to be still and shut up
Reading Ilya Rozanov through the lens of trauma
Trauma, hypervigilance, and survival instincts in Heated Rivalry
Dating with a jacked-up nervous system
Five first dates and why I’m walking away from good men
Heated Rivalry and narcissistic abuse
Reading Ilya Rozanov’s behavior through the lens of childhood abuse