The Wrong Kind of Gay Dad
Pride and the gay parent everyone’s comfortable with.
what are we doing here
I’m a gay dad and former teacher writing about the systems we’re stuck in—and how we raise kids who can break them. If you’re rethinking school, parenting, or your own story, this is your place.
Live Last read · last published · next check
Latest posts
Your Baby Will Have Two Loving Daddies
Somewhere in my house there is a green folder.
Twenty-Two Years. Twelve Official.
We couldn't wait for permission. So we built our own.
The Therapist My Parents Hired to Fix Me
This week the Supreme Court ruled 8-1 to strike down Colorado’s ban on so-called conversion therapy.
I Can't Take His Hand
Mine is holding my phone
They Told Me I'd Understand When I Was Older. I Do. They Were Wrong.
On what gets passed down when adults refuse to be questioned
I Wish I Didn’t Care This Much
Winter makes it louder. Fatherhood makes it harder.
Lou, The Sun Seeker
a remembrance
Nothing was wrong. I still felt off after becoming a dad.
On anger, routine, and what happens after the adrenaline fades
Love Is the Best and Worst Thing
A dad's take on grief, joy, and refusing to go numb