
We Know Too Much About Child Development to Parent the Way We Thought We Would
After years of studying this stuff and teaching millions of parents, there are things we do in our own homes that probably aren't what you'd expect.
A messy love letter to real life with kids
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After years of studying this stuff and teaching millions of parents, there are things we do in our own homes that probably aren't what you'd expect.

Post-diagnosis confusion, regression, mental breakdown, and the slow rebuilding that followed.

Why it happens - and how to change the pattern...

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I'm a child therapist, and I want you to let your kid struggle.

The other night, one of my kids was absolutely losing it.

What attachment research actually says about yelling, losing your cool, repair, and what truly protects your child’s brain and self-esteem.

A quiet Target run. An uninterrupted coffee. Somebody else deciding what’s for dinner. We are a generation hanging on by an emotional support thread.

Rejection sensitivity dysphoria may be the missing piece for your intense, sensitive, “difficult” kid.

7 science-backed shifts that actually build gratitude, resilience, and respect.

Why the end of the day feels so hard—for both you and your child, and what actually helps.

A step-by-step way to shift from “helping” to true ownership

3 simple things to say every night to build a resilient brain

The 7 daily tools that have improved my life as a late-diagnosed, autistic mom.

How to protect your kids from SA, without making them scared of the world.

And admitting it’s hard sometimes doesn’t mean you love your kids any less...

The slightly taboo topic many parents are secretly wondering about and the exact guidance they’ve been looking for.

And it’s starting to heal my inner child.

This was supposed to be the postpartum where I was ok.