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5:48 Sex After Baby, Toddler Tantrums, 2 Under 2 & Are We Done Having Kids? The Season 5 Finale Q&A
Season 5 is a wrap, and we're ending it the way we started: with your questions.
5.47: The Questions You're Googling at 2AM Postpartum (Mom Guilt, Resentment, Identity Loss + More)
We pulled the questions you're actually Googling at 2am, the ones you're too scared to ask out loud, and we're answering all of them, no fluff.
5:46 Nobody Warned Us Our Marriage Would Do This: Relationships After Kids, The Honest Version
The two most common DMs we get?
5:45 Breastfeeding, Pumping & Formula: The Honest Truth Nobody Tells You
Amanda is seven weeks postpartum and officially off her blood pressure medication, and today we're getting into everything breastfeeding, pumping and formula.
5:44 The Mind F*ck That Is Postpartum - What Your Body Actually Goes Through
Amanda is officially five weeks postpartum and we are getting into all of it.
5:43 Labour & Delivery Tips, Birth Stories & the Parts Nobody Warns You About.
Amanda's back, and she's no longer pregnant.
5:42 My Postpartum Hormones Were Wrecked: What the Testing Found & What Finally Fixed It (Part 2)
Part 2 is here and this is where it gets real.
5:41 My Postpartum Hormones Were Wrecked: Parasites, Heavy Periods & Why My Doctors Kept Ignoring Me
After having kids, Jessie started experiencing extreme postpartum hormone issues that nobody could explain.
5:40 The Brutally Honest Q&A Part 2: Pregnancy, Toddler Chaos & The Stuff Nobody Says Out Loud
We're back.
5:39 Mom Advice Q&A: Emotional Struggles No One Talks About
Mom Advice Q&A: Emotional Struggles No One Talks About