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The Return, by Tessa Carranza-Hawthorn

The Return is a column about finding a way to return to the things we love, including ourselves. Weekly essays on love, friendship and culture.

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Do you think about divorce?

Strangers by Belle Burden and the WAY stranger stories I can tell you from my years as a divorce lawyer

Will you be proud of you when you die?

life in a brief but telling timeline

Have you ever felt rejected by your kid?

Spoiler: it’s not about you.

#4: The Monthly Return (March 2026)

A transcendent Bon Iver recording, a devastating film, Greek island daydreams, an essay on new parenthood, and two poems about love.

The hybrid-mom and the jobby

definitions to live by

Write what you don’t know

And let it teach you about yourself

Things that almost last

On killing your darlings

Let yourself be loved

Wounds, masks and uncurling the fist of hyper-indepedence

#3: The Monthly Return (Feb, 2026)

Nostalgia, consciousness, comedy, parenting, and creative discipline.

You might not be sad – you might be grieving

How to tell when your sadness is demanding that you change