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When our kids are fine at school and then fall apart the second they see you. Here's what's actually happening.
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Parenting is hard. Screwing up your kid? Seems way too easy. I’m Lauren, child development expert & founder of The Parenting Collaborative here to help you raise emotionally healthy kids with science, strategy, and zero BS.
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