Before You Spend Five Figures Without a Plan, Read This.
Who I am, how I got here, and where to start your own plan - whether you haven't had a consultation yet or you're already mid-treatment.
Solo Fertility In Your 40s
I write for solo women over 40 who want to grow their families with assisted reproductive technology.
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The pattern nobody warns you about
The Saturday Letter: Preparing for IVF can be learned - before you spend five figures.
You don't know if you're too late to start IVF at 40-something. But here's what you do know.
Why fertility statistics look like a verdict - and why they aren't one.
You’re allowed to question the conventional family structure
The Saturday Letter: What we've been sold about the shape of motherhood - and what the research actually says
How to avoid being a passive bystander in your treatment
The questions that stop decisions being made for you
Before you trust a fertility clinic's success rate - read this.
The one number every clinic leads with, and what it might not be telling you.
Happy World IVF Day. 48 years on, here's what still doesn't win prizes
The science is extraordinary. The care is where it falls apart - and what that means for women like us.
Anne Hathaway's Pregnancy at 43 Is Beautiful News. For Solo Women, the Reality Is More Complicated.
Natural conception and IVF at 43 are two completely different propositions. The headlines won't tell you that.
"Let’s be optimistic” is not a treatment plan
The red flag I mistook for positivity — and the €11,000 it cost me.
Guest post: The egg was never waiting to be chosen
Milli Hill exposes the stories we’ve been told about being female and replaces them with a new narrative: women are powerful, strong and perfect just as we are.