is "i don't chase, i attract" the reason 45% of women are still single?
if we're all "attracting," who's doing the asking?
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Dating clarity for people tired of doing emotional gymnastics. Essays on modern dating, tools for changing patterns, and a community that values clarity over chaos.
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