Once You Know Something, You Can Never Unknow It.
What happens when the affair illuminates your truth?
Letters to Lauren
'Letters to Lauren' provides insight, support, compassion, and education in response to reader's letters about infidelity. Here, readers know they aren't alone. Letters can be submitted at www.laurenlarusso.com/letter
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I Went Back to My Marriage. Am I Just Pretending?
After ending her affair, an unfaithful spouse worries she'll have deathbed-regrets.
He Filed Two Years Ago But Still Lives With His Wife
Delays in a parenting agreement are keeping this affair partner in purgatory.
When His Fantasy Became Her Affair
When one night of fun becomes a seven-year affair, an unfaithful wife wonders how to heal.
Five years after my wife's affair, I'm having second thoughts.
A betrayed husband wonders if his early efforts to save his marriage prevented him from recognizing deeper issues that plague him today.
How do I break up with my married affair partner once and for all?
Feeling more ready than ever, a single affair partner needs advice on the best course of action.
Are affairs like a drug? It feels that way.
A letter writer feels like an addict, as she contends with withdrawal in an attempt to embark on recovery.
His wife had a stroke, and he's never leaving her. Am I stuck forever?
An affair between old friends has clear limitations. Is an open marriage the answer?
I'm totally content as an affair partner. Am I just fooling myself?
A letter writer whose role as the "other woman" suits her just fine wonders if the relationship is sustainable.
I'm torn between honoring my commitment to my husband and pursuing my own happiness and fulfillment.
Comparing apples and oranges leaves a letter writer perplexed.