
The You That Comes Alive With Someone Else - Can You Bring Her Home?
On outsourcing our aliveness — and why affairs feel so intoxicating.
Writer. Speaker. Intimacy & Relating Coach This space is for people who are willing to look beneath the surface of love, relationships, and belonging—and to question the stories we’ve inherited about what intimacy is supposed to look like.
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On outsourcing our aliveness — and why affairs feel so intoxicating.

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