# Learning to Love by Galina Singer

Writer. Speaker. Intimacy & Relating Coach This space is for people who are willing to look beneath the surface of love, relationships, and belonging—and to question the stories we’ve inherited about what intimacy is supposed to look like.

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## [The You That Comes Alive With Someone Else - Can You Bring Her Home?](https://galinasinger.substack.com/p/the-you-that-comes-alive-with-someone)

_2026-08-11 · Galina Singer_

On outsourcing our aliveness — and why affairs feel so intoxicating.

## ["You Hurt Me? I'll Hurt You."](https://galinasinger.substack.com/p/you-hurt-me-ill-hurt-you)

_2026-08-06 · Galina Singer_

Learning to love through the urge to retaliate.

## [When Happiness Stopped Feeling Dangerous.](https://galinasinger.substack.com/p/when-happiness-stopped-feeling-dangerous)

_2026-07-28 · Galina Singer_

I spent much of my life waiting for the other shoe to drop.

## [Love Isn't Something Another Person Can Give Us.](https://galinasinger.substack.com/p/love-isnt-something-another-person)

_2026-07-20 · Galina Singer_

For me love is no longer something I seek, it's something I remember.

## [Does That Mean He Doesn't Love Us Anymore?](https://galinasinger.substack.com/p/does-that-mean-he-doesnt-love-us)

_2026-07-13 · Galina Singer_

What someone leaves behind doesn’t have to become your identity.

## [His Reaction was Not about Me.](https://galinasinger.substack.com/p/his-reaction-was-not-about-me)

_2026-07-06 · Galina Singer_

Why curiosity repairs relationships better than certainty

## [People Don't See Reality. They Project Themselves.](https://galinasinger.substack.com/p/people-dont-see-reality-they-project)

_2026-06-22 · Galina Singer_

What over 5,500 comments revealed about relationships - and human nature.

## [Ten Years. One question I am still asking.](https://galinasinger.substack.com/p/ten-years-one-question-i-am-still)

_2026-06-15 · Galina Singer_

Ten years ago I thought I was writing about motherhood.

## [When Your Life is No Longer Waiting to Begin](https://galinasinger.substack.com/p/when-your-life-is-no-longer-waiting)

_2026-06-08 · Galina Singer_

Why I no longer have a bucket list

## [Daily plans, scheduled by AI (Sponsored)](https://crawlproof.com/a/0NmeqyZVAwZi)

_2026-06-08 · **Sponsored**_

AI-made daily plans that schedule tasks and protect focus time.

## [When the Fantasy of Love Ends.](https://galinasinger.substack.com/p/when-the-fantasy-of-love-ends)

_2026-06-02 · Galina Singer_

The people we love will disappoint us. The question is what we make that disappointment mean.