The Men I Hurt (And You Might’ve Too)
All names withheld. Guilt? Um, not so much.
Tiny, Private Love Letter
Real talk and cultural commentary about love, dating, and living abroad from an award-winning educator (20+ years, featured on CNN, NPR, The Guardian) and 3X expat.
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Turns out I already had the tools. I'd just been using them in bed.
I'm Tying the Knot
But I'm trying to stop it before it happens.
How I Became a Soccer Fan (and South African)
Started in London in 1998 and goes to Portugal in 2030
Why I Went On A "Date" 1 Day After My Surgery
Or, 50 questions you should consider asking men when you're dating over 50.
I Had a Zero Percent Chance
Or, that one about what you can figure out on your own and what you can't.
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I was homesick.
If you're barely hanging on, read this
Sometimes, I'm barely hanging on. Sometimes, I need to let go.
The Man With The Electrically Charged Texts
I was ready to stand on my own.