
Q&A: Helping a Young Child Follow Limits
Resolving Defiance and Cooperation Around Handwashing and In General
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Resolving Defiance and Cooperation Around Handwashing and In General

Focus on Small Compliances to Prevent Big Ones from Happening and Land the Plane Like a Grown Up When They Do

Note: trying a new little series I’m calling “Notes from My Phone.” Just short thoughts with hopefully actionable ideas!

If we’re moving beyond gentle parenting, does it mean our children don’t learn to understand, consider, problem-solve, and use language effectively around emotions?

One aspect that seems unexamined in the parental burnout discourse is powerlessness.

By attempting to round off all the sharp edges and challenges in the parent-child relationship, we deprive children of the skills they need to PLAY and few things are as essential to the full development of a capable and confident human as the decade+ of full on play that has been the cornerstone of development for all of time until 25 years ago.

Yes, a few times a year, I actually declutter the toys in my home to the list below!

Like a driver instructor teaches you to stop at a red light no matter what—not to look around and decide if it’s actually safe to go or to check if a police officer is present to ticket you, you want a child to never hit or bolt into traffic, regardless of how they feel about it or what the “consequences” may be.