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Could It Be Better? · Jul 7, 2026

Placeholders...We All Have Them

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Cher Anderton · Could It Be Better?

We often hold onto things - not because we love them, but because they are placeholders.

We keep the relationship that drains us because it’s familiar. We keep the job that stifles us because it pays the bills. We keep the old story because the unknown feels too terrifying to face.

But here is the truth: A placeholder is not enough. It’s just a stand-in for what we actually want. It’s a barrier between you and the life you know is possible.

Letting go isn’t just about ending something; it’s about clearing space.

When you release what no longer serves you in the face of uncertainty, you are making the ultimate declaration: “I trust myself.”

You are trusting that you will survive the void. You are trusting that something better is coming. You are trusting that you don’t need to fill every inch of your life with the “safe” stuff to be okay.

And here is the secret: Clearing that space invites magic.

Magic cannot enter a room that is already packed with furniture you’re afraid to move. When you make space, you create a vacuum that the universe rushes to fill with the very things you’ve been waiting for.

So today, I invite you to ask: What am I holding onto just as a placeholder?

And then, take one brave step to clear it. Trust yourself enough to leave the gap open. The magic is on its way.

Where are you being asked to let go of a placeholder right now?

Much Love,

Cher

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