Last chance for some live coaching (and other stuff)

There's a version of "I don't need this" that comes up with almost every class I teach, and it goes something like:

"I've been doing this for years. I know what I want. I communicate well. This is probably for people newer than me. Right?”

Or sometimes, it goes the other direction:

“I don’t even know where to start, so maybe I can’t get anything out of this yet.”

So I want to be specific about who today’s class, Desire Decoded: Reverse-Engineering Your Kink Needs—which starts in just about an hour!!!—is for.

If you've ever finished a negotiation, played, and found yourself thinking “this is technically everything we discussed" while feeling something was missing — this is for that.

If you've ever tried to explain a desire and landed on a list of acts or a description of a dynamic, felt sure there’s SOMETHING close to one of them which works for you, but simply couldn’t land on any words that really captured it — this is for that.

If you’ve been stuck circling the same vague sense of what you want without ever quite getting a hand on it, or if you HAVE gotten it but in a way you just can’t quite bring yourself to say to a partner or potential play partner out loud, for whatever reason that might be — this is for that too.

Knowing what you want and having a systematic way to map what you want are different skills. The second one doesn't come automatically from experience. A lot of folks are never taught anything like it, and it isn’t really always instinctive either. So if you feel anything like the above, you're far from alone. That’s why I wrote this class.

You don’t have to show up having figured it out. You can show up with the vague thing and work it in the room. We’re going to go through it live, together. Do it totally in a journal as we go, or be a volunteer for live coaching, or participate in the chat, or see how you feel when you show up. All are welcome.

xoxo,

v