
Breast Is Best Almost Broke Me
On D-MER, the pressure to keep going, and what I wish someone had told me sooner about breastfeeding.
Feel less alone in the emotional whiplash of motherhood. I’m a perinatal psychiatric NP and mom of 2 writing about postpartum anxiety, rage, identity shifts, grief, joy, relationships, and the parts of becoming a mother that rarely make the highlight reel
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On D-MER, the pressure to keep going, and what I wish someone had told me sooner about breastfeeding.

On postpartum care that ends too soon, screens too little, and leaves mothers to figure out the rest alone.

On the almost-didn't, the unhinged places you find her, and why it matters more than you realized.

On finding that mom friend who gets it but not knowing where to start

A handout to help moms find the right kind of help, whether that's a crisis line, a support group, or a therapist who actually specializes in postpartum care.

A simple guide to help new moms understand the difference between the baby blues and postpartum depression, anxiety.

What it is, why it happens, and what actually helps — before the moment, in it, and after you snap.

What mom rage at bedtime is actually telling you — and what helped me stop dreading it

What new moms actually mean when they say they are "fine".

Research shows up to 100% of new mothers have intrusive thoughts — including thoughts of harm. A perinatal NP on what they are, why they happen, and what actually helps.