
The Things We Leave Behind
On immigration, impermanence, and wanting to believe that everything is going to be okay.
Lizette
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On immigration, impermanence, and wanting to believe that everything is going to be okay.

On movement work, spiritual grounding, and building what can outlast a political moment.

After years spent fighting for our son, I’m rediscovering the life José and I dreamed of building together.

What happens when protecting your child becomes a second full-time job?

What does it mean to come of age when your childhood has been the subject of a national debate?

On grief, music, the illusion of control, and learning to love what we cannot keep.

Our family’s story has always been an invitation to empathy, but never has it been an invitation to debate whether our lives are valid.

What if the mental health disparities we see among transgender young people tell us less about who they are and far more about the conditions we’ve created for them to grow up in?

Sometimes the people who love us most recognize our transformation before we do. Sometimes their love transforms them, too.

We don’t just prepare our children for the world. We help build one where they belong.