does this job really require a degree? can I become a full time writer? will I get where I want to be?

Do you need to get it off your “desk”? Enter: Per My Last Email, an anonymous series where we’re getting the real deal on how women feel about their careers—the frustrating struggles, the joyful moments, and everything in-between. Whether you’re looking for real advice or just validation that we’re possibly all going through it right now, find their responses below.

How old are you?

27

Where do you live?

New York

What is your job?

Marketing Specialist

What is your yearly income?

$65,000

What is your relationship status?

Single and ready to mingle

Do you have any children?

Not yet, but hopefully one day!

Did you attend college?

Yes. I went to a college fifteen minutes away from where I grew up and still live.

If yes, are you currently using your degree?

Kind of. I majored in marketing and work in marketing, so yes. Did I need the degree? Absolutely not. I don't believe business/marketing are among the things that require school.

What did you want to be when you were a kid?

A writer. I dreamed about writing for magazines or becoming a NY Times bestseller.

What do you think your younger self would think of you today?

I think she'd be proud. I may not be exactly where I want to be yet, but I've always had a lot of patience. I think she'd see the work I've done and have faith in my continuing journey.

Do you love your work?

I enjoy the projects I do and the people I work with, but I wouldn’t necessarily say I enjoy the industry I’m in. I truly never let go of the dream to write full-time.

Do you think you should love your work?

I do. And it's something I'm still chasing. When you love what you do, it's not work. Cheesy, but true.

What is your work-life balance like?

It's amazing. I WFH, so it's easy to make happen. On top of that, I have really great leadership that reminds me to take time for myself. I'm really grateful for it.

What is one thing you had to learn the hard way?

To speak up for myself. Early in my career, I let a lot of jobs take advantage of my kindness and eagerness to grow and learn. I ended up burning myself out super quickly this way. Work hard, but also set boundaries and respect yourself.

What is something you wish you'd known early in your career?

How important networking is. Building connections will get you opportunities that your resume can't.

What is one piece of advice every woman needs to hear?

Create your own opportunities if you can't find any. I started blogging in 2016 because I knew it would set me apart from other resumes. It's been a topic of conversation in every job interview I've had. I may not have a huge following, but it has showcased my willingness to learn and grow my skillset.

What's one thing you're struggling with? (at work or otherwise)

To believe in myself. I think my past work history stunted me a bit, so breaking into what I really want to do has been hard. It can be discouraging to be 27 and still trying to figure out where you belong or still struggling to get where you want to be.

What's one thing bringing you joy? (at work or otherwise)

My hobbies. They let my creativity shine without any rules. I really enjoy writing on Substack, photography, and filming TikToks.

Is there anything else you want to get off your chest/desk?

You don't need much to start; you just need to start. If you want to learn photography, start on your phone and research different techniques. If you want to start a blog, sign up for a free Substack website and start writing even if no one's reading.

Don't let comparison stop you from doing the things that are calling you. Just do them.

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