The Power of a Mirror

Mirror, mirror on the wall, what’s the easiest domination trick of them all? While the brain is the biggest sex organ, most subs can’t resist visual cues. There’s something magical about ordering a sub to look himself in the eye while you’re inside them, or while you show them who really has the power in the relationship.

Here’s why they work: Before we go to work, before we go out on a date, we check the mirror to see how we look to the world. We might change our jewelry or brush our hair one more time, aware of exactly how we’re presenting ourselves. During sex, we might imagine how we look. But it’s a completely different experience to actually see how we look. A picture is worth a thousand words, and being able to see himself wearing his little pink panties makes it sink deeper than just telling him how he looks in his little pink panties.

Whether you have a hand mirror, a full-length mirror, or your bedroom ceiling is a mirror, there are so many ways to use sight to dominate your partner.

What you’ll need:

• A mirror. Some of these will use different kinds of mirrors, but if you have one full-length mirror you can move around, you should be able to handle most of them.

• A safeword if you’re playing in a way that could cause overwhelm.

Zoom

Mirror: Small, handheld magnifying mirror

He uses his tongue to please you, and you use a small mirror to get an even closer look at exactly what your pleasure looks like. I swear the sensations are so much more powerful when I can see his tongue sliding up and down at the same time I feel it. I can hear him moan into my pussy at the exact moment his tongue slides inside me.

Try different positions to see what will give you the best view. Bonus points if he’s the one who has to hold the mirror.

Edge

Mirror: Full-length

Either you’re touching him, or he’s touching himself, but the goal remains the same. You want him to watch himself get to as many edges as you decide. Personally, I think it’s more fun to never actually let them finish.

Both of you get to enjoy the spasms, the shivers, and the moans that take over his body in full-length view.

Aesthetic Worship

Mirror: Full-length

You want him to worship every inch of your body, and you want to watch him doing it. Stand or sit in front of a full-length mirror and have him start with the top of your head. Kiss, touch, lick, compliment. He has to show you exactly how beautiful he thinks you are.

He must ask for permission before moving onto the next area. Only when he’s properly and completely worshipped your neck can he move on to your collarbones.