The Take on Patriarchy We Argue With
Why men’s pain is not evidence against patriarchy, but evidence of what it costs
Manhood Reimagined
Exploring a positive vision for manhood (that is good for men, women, and children) in the 21st Century and beyond.
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Men Were Taught to Measure the Wrong Things
What changes when manhood is measured not by power, performance, or winning, but by whether life is safer because we are here.
Free Module: Time Doesn’t Heal. Tending Does.
For the divorces, childhood wounds, lost years, and silent grief men carry
Honesty Is a Health Practice
A cholesterol update (and a reminder that letting people know what you are navigating can become part of how you heal).
Gardeners, Mystics, Guardians, and Beloveds
A reimagining of the popular male archetypes.
The Numb Man Is Not Empty
What if male numbness is not the absence of feeling, but the result of never having a safe place to feel?
The Unfinished Work of Becoming a Man
Thoughts on the Constitution, Graham Platner, and fathering a 19-year old.
Being Male Doesn’t Make You a Man
Just Like Being Old Doesn’t Make You Wise
From the Individual to the Collective
Solidarity: one example of what a reimagined manhood could look like.
What Can A Trillionaire Teach Us About Men’s Work?
Are we pursuing a more benevolent patriarchy or becoming better humans?