The old playbook is dead.
What worked to secure major private grants five years ago falls flat. The larger your target awards, the more dramatically the rules have changed.
To succeed, you need to understand what’s driving major foundation investments.
Shift 1: Stealth Funders Outnumber Open Invite Foundations
RIP RFPs.
Growth lies with proactive funders, those that don’t accept unsolicited proposals and often shun the typical courting process. Many won’t surface in your prospect research. Some operate as traditional foundations. Others work through pooled funds, LLCs, and donor advised funds that mask their activities.
They seek out qualified grantees and initiate contact themselves. They might request information or just send a check. Think MacKenzie Scott.
This phenomenon inverts everything your early grants training taught you.
Funders do the research. Not you.
Funders determine alignment. Not you.
Funders initiate cultivation. Not you.
How do you find agency when your target funders lurk rather than offer paths to connection?
If you secure your organization’s largest awards, your duties now include two parallel tracks: building relationships with traditional foundations and attracting stealth funders. Relationships and reputation drive this new era of major grants, not polished applications.
Shift 2: Program Officers Are Harder to Reach—and More Essential
Relationships with foundation staff are like the best concert tickets. There’s a limited supply, extreme demand, and a box office that stopped taking calls.
Federal funding uncertainty sent nonprofits fleeing to foundations. AI turned development shops into proposal factories. Program officers now wade through oceans of applications from organizations that weren’t on their radar a year ago.
The application writing contests that typify our field apply to mid-range and smaller awards. You succeed with major grants when you know how to win attention. By the time you’re invited to write, grant makers have made the decision that matters most: whether to engage.
Shift 3: Writing Matters Outside of Funding Applications
Writing still matters in major grants, but not where you might expect.
Especially with seven-figure awards, your organization’s 24/7 presence shapes whether invitations arrive. Everything your organization publishes sends a signal to funders. Think of your socials as the cover letter. Your website is the application. Everything else is an ongoing interview.
At her grants lead’s urging, a CEO pushed her organization to become clearer and more confident in its digital presence. Months later, a foundation trustee who had heard about the group from a peer followed its online work closely—and ultimately invited a $400,000 proposal.
Proposals still matter when those invitations arrive. But communications more broadly determine whether invitations arrive at all.
Shift 4: Larger Average Awards Mean a New Way of Working
Foundation assets have exploded.
Both for the foundations spending down and those planning for perpetuity, funders are leaning on larger awards.
Your top prospects deserve disproportionate energy. If you spend 30 minutes this week designing strategy for a new relationship, are you going to look at that time differently with funders that max out at $25K, $250K, and $2.5M?
Time is short, and colleagues are burning out. Too many skilled professionals waste energy on portals and deadlines that create the illusion of progress while missing the most transformational opportunities.
The $25,000 grant that feels productive today costs you the $500,000 multi-year partnership you didn’t have time to cultivate.
Shift 5: Grant Seekers Champion these Changes, Regardless of Title
Foundations don’t fund projects. They fund organizations they trust with projects.
That trust is shaped by what funders see and hear. Grant seekers succeed when colleagues across the organization understand their role in building that reputation. When leaders and program staff reinforce a clear, aligned message through their networks and platforms, funders perceive strength. When priorities appear fragmented or inconsistent, funders perceive risk.
Reputation deepens as relationships deepen. Grant seekers act like air traffic controllers, guiding colleagues toward the ideas, language, and practices that resonate with prospective funders. Even the most respected subject matter experts rarely have a full view of the funding landscape.
You can help your chief executive rethink grant seeking, but culture change can’t rest on leadership alone. Strategy leads, program directors, evaluation heads, and communications colleagues all shape how funders experience the organization.
Step into the role of internal advocate, regardless of your title.
If you’re responsible for securing your organization’s most significant private awards, your job description is outdated.
Your primary role is strategic communicator.
The Cost of Stagnation
If moderate-sized grants fill your days, AI is likely the most pressing issue on your plate. You’re surely wondering how it can help you do your work efficiently and ethically.
But if you pursue major grants, don’t get trapped in the same line of thinking. The more time you spend perfecting proposals, especially the unsolicited ones, the more you’re playing the funding lottery. Have you checked your chances of winning the Mega Millions jackpot?
With the explosion of invite-only windfalls propelled by stealth funders, our field increasingly rewards those who can command attention—sometimes without submitting any application at all.
That’s a daunting task for many. It’s a challenge with significant rewards for those willing to rethink how they work.

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