We can share him

I love that I’m not monogamous. I also love that I’m not polygamous or any of the other unorthodox relationship structures. I’m just me. A bisexual woman who goes where the pleasure is prioritized and leaves when it isn’t.

Pleasure for me is: money, gifts, sex, traveling, dates, companionship AND the ability to teach me things and put me in positions that would be impossible to do alone. I also NEED to be stimulated mentally. If you cannot go into geek mode and tell me things you’ve learned from living life then eh, even with the other fulfillments, my attention will begin to fade.

Do you know what it’s like for a Gemini to lose interest in you? It’s probably best you stay ignorant to that reality… we can be extremely cold hearted and detached. The experience of love and sex with a Gemini is out of this world but the pain is of equal value, that is the truth.

We can share him, though.

Look, I’m not sure what a lot of women have going on these days, as for me, my love life is NOT a priority and truthfully it has never been. I like MONEY, SEX AND POWER, period. I want to be the very BEST at what it is I do and I will be…

My time and attention goes to my efforts building my dream life. My time and attention is not a distraction until the right man and right experience comes along. That is in addition to my purpose, nothing more… so yes we can share him, he will need you! Hell, I need you, too. My lovers ecosystem only works when my lovers have love outside of me. I cannot be a man’s end all be all. Again; I have shit to do. He has to be able to fuck, get sucked on, laugh and whatever else, elsewhere. My life belongs to me; his life belongs to him and or whoever he wants to share it with.

Love isn’t as complicated as many people like to believe. It’s just what it is. So if I am choosing to share parts of me with a man who loves elsewhere, congratulations to him for exercising his freedom and breaking through societal norms that look down on people who are open to multiple experiences through multiple people at the same time. This life is for the living and everyone deserves to be happy.

Yes we can share him!!

HIM.

My experiences are with him. There is no polygamous, shit taking place while I’m involved. I have yet to experience a man that makes me want to submit to him in that way. That does not sound appealing to me at all. I’d rather go back to being monogamous and just be a cheater. I’m not having 3 somes, pushing out babies and combining resources for the sake of fulfilling a man’s fantasy or what he considers to be his duty. I’m not sitting at a dinner table in a fine restaurant with multiple women and “our” man. A man will not reap that social benefit from me. It’s never happening and if it were, do understand there is an underlying financial arrangement being made on the side. I am not sucking on pussy, cooking and cleaning for “nation building”, “legacy”, “the black family unit” or everyone’s favorite, “generational wealth.”

No.

I am my own woman and as I always say, my joy, pleasure and experiences reign supreme. I know what I want and I know what makes me feel good. If he happens to make me feel good and you are an extension of him, so be it… we can share.

MADAM❤️