
What my dying cat taught me
I write this as my cat Luna sleeps next to me, subdued by strong painkillers and the effect of imminent death from acute kidney injury. This is not a happy piece.
✨Neurodivergent✨ SEN Specialist Tutor ✨Leader of a Large Neurodivergent ✨Community Counsellor in Training ✨Director of The ND Collabs ✨
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I write this as my cat Luna sleeps next to me, subdued by strong painkillers and the effect of imminent death from acute kidney injury. This is not a happy piece.

Neurodivergent communities are booming and neurodivergent friendships are multiplying. What's changing? Hint - it's got a lot to do with the movement to ditch the apps, gaining momentum worldwide.

For legal reasons, let’s say that despite being written in the first person, this is about SWIM: Someone Who Isn’t Me. Maybe it was my goldfish Judith. Maybe it’s fiction! Choose your own disclaimer.

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We’re normalising an expectation of instant responses and constant availability. It’s time to push back

When I say I forget, I will remember when it is 2am, when I am in a meeting, or when I am crossing the road

99% of people with ADHD experience RSD, and many find it to be the worst aspect of our condition. Much worse than The Disappearing Phone. It causes unbearable darkness & shame that blights our lives.

It is a myth that Neurodivergents, especially those with Autism, lack empathy. Many Neurodivergents experience heightened emotional empathy. This myth may be rooted in the double blind empathy problem