Hi everybody! Thanks for being here. During the month of July I’ll be revisiting and revising a 4-part series from the Woodlands Archives. It’s called What We’re Looking For. I’ll be away on vacation, but I look forward to responding to your comments. New posts will continue in August. In the meantime, here’s….
We yearn for love, meaning, belonging, and transcendence. This is our soul’s holy longing, whether we name it that or not. And we remain restless until we find what we seek.
If you’re not especially religious, you might wonder why I’ve included transcendence in this list. Love, meaning, belonging. Sure. But transcendence? That sounds like God-stuff. Not everybody seeks God. Or at least not God as Christians understand it. Right?
Let’s reframe transcendence for both the spiritually curious and those who reject the idea of a higher power. In its simplest terms, transcendence means beyond.
We yearn to connect to something beyond ourselves.
Beyond our ego.
Beyond our achievements.
Beyond applause that fades.
Beyond the stuff we’ve accumulated.
Beyond even our death.
This is more than just religious longing—it’s a universal spiritual desire. A search for meaning and purpose that outlives our circumstances.
Surveys reveal how widespread this longing really is. Take Generation Z, the people born between 1997 and 2012. They are the least religious generation in modern history. They rarely attend worship services. They often doubt God’s existence—or reject it completely.
And yet, 83% of Gen Z believe in an afterlife.
They believe in something beyond this life.
(See the @ryanburge essay “Is There A Religious Revival Occurring Among Generation Z?”)
To me, even the barest belief in life after death isn’t just intellectual. It’s emotional. It’s existential. It’s a yearning—an ache for something eternal. A desire that no social media feed or career milestone can satisfy.
In our time, there’s no single way to talk about this. No shared language for soul hunger. No consensus on what spiritual experiences mean. But the yearning itself hasn’t disappeared. It’s what keeps us looking for a spiritual pathway.
Longing for transcendence isn’t about escaping to a better place. It’s about anchoring ourselves in something real. Something deep. Something that fills this life with meaning that doesn’t fade.
The letter to the Colossians offers a glimpse into how the transcendent guides and informs our everyday existence.
“We have heard of your faith in Christ Jesus and of the love that you have for all the saints, because of the hope laid up for you in heaven.” (Col. 1:4-5)
Hope for what’s beyond shapes how we love in the here and now.
Our connection to the transcendent molds our character. It forms our patience, our courage, our capacity for joy—even in suffering.
Colossians says it like this:
“May you be made strong with all the strength that comes from his glorious power, and may you be prepared to endure everything with patience, while joyfully giving thanks to the Father.” (Col. 1:11-12)
This longing isn’t a drive to be satiated. As we’ll see in the next reflection, it’s our finite soul’s longing to be stretched—to have more and more space within us to receive the infinite God.
This week, whenever you find yourself restless, disappointed, or wanting something more, pause for a moment and ask:
What am I really longing for?
Don’t try to fix anything. Just notice.
Prayer
O God, guide my deepest longings toward you. Amen.
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That’s it for now friends. Next week, look for Part 2: “What Makes Your Life Meaningful.” Until then, be well and God bless.
Jake
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