How I finance my clothes

For obvious reasons, this one’s for our smaller paid sub community. And I’m gonna really get into it.

I get this question (generally indirectly) quite a bit. In those rare moments when I idiotically look at unsubs (I know! Stop Rach), there’s always at least one that says “your budget is so different from mine.”

I inevitably let this hurt me. I don’t read the words as written. Instead I read: “You’re an unrelatable, entitled, rich a-hole.”

And then I get all defensive in my head, which is likely because, my coach would say, this is something I myself worry about and self-indict over.

I don’t need to justify myself, I know! I am comfortable with that. But I try to be incredibly real here. And I thought airing it out would make for an interesting read, answer a question that occurs to people, and ultimately bring us closer. Which I love! So let’s get into it.