Sex Healing For Gay Men Part 3

First of all read this from one of the guys on the Erotic Awakening program that just finished (shared with his permission and blessing).

As the first round of The Erotic Awakening comes to a close, I’m reflecting on what I learned about guiding 30 gay, bi, queer, trans and questioning men from around the world through this sexual healing journey.

It’s easy to get frustrated about “falling behind”, or not getting through everything inside an 8 week program. But The Cock-Heat Meditation this guys is taking about in this message was in module 4 I think. But he only just sent that message to the WhatsApp Group after the program finished 4 weeks later…

This is proof of what I always say:

There’s no right schedule, there is no finish line, and there is certainly no behind when it comes to erotic healing.

I lay the program step by step out across 8 weeks to give you a path to walk and a structure to follow. There are guided videos, pdf workbooks, audio guides, meditations, journals and step-by-step masturbation, anal pleasure and sex practices…

But you have to trust your own timing.

Sometimes a part of you isn’t ready to open yet, and your own inner wisdom keeps it closed for now. I believe that completely. Then you come back to it when you’re ready (just like the guy above with the cock-heart meditation!) and you find what’s been waiting there for you. The treasure reveals itself.

Some of the guys resisted certain modules, but when they came back to them they found that there was more ease with it.

The modules work together like pieces of a puzzle. I’ve put them in a certain order, but they don’t necessarily have to be your order. You can make it your own.

The Core Erotic Theme work in module 3 is a good example. This is where we look at the sex scenes, erotic dynamics, kinks, fantasies, porn habits and turn-ons that most light you up and excite you. We explore what they reveal about your deeper emotional needs and the old stories underneath them. It’s very deep work. Often it takes you into places you’ve never thought to look. It wants to be taken slowly…

This is not a tick-it-off-and-you’re-done kind of thing.

It’s slow, ongoing inner erotic excavation. It’s a lifetime’s work really. The 8 week program is just the key that unlocks a journey that will stay with you forever.

And there’s a real relief in that once it lands, because you can finally stop rushing to some imagined finish line…

With love and pleasure, Gary x