I Wrote a Marriage Book. Then We Had Another Baby.
Putting My Own Relationship Advice to the Ultimate Test
Eli’s Substack
Real talk on love, parenting, and the messy middle—plus a backstage pass to my upcoming book. Think of this as coffee with a therapist friend who’s willing to go there and let you in on the process.
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I Published a Book. Now What?
The High, the Drop, and What Happens After You Finally Do the Thing
One Week. Thank You.: What This Book Is Really For
One week until launch 💛
Staying Us in the Chaos: Connection Without Another To-Do
Love doesn’t disappear—it gets buried
One Moment Is Not the Whole Story
Reframing Rejection and Reclaiming Your Narrative
Repair Matters More Than Perfection: Coming Back Is the Work
The power of repair
Marriage Isn’t 50/50: Why Teamwork Beats Fairness
Let’s retire the 50/50 myth
The Holy Trinity: Expectations, Perceptions, Reality: Where Most Conflict Actually Lives
The triangle that changes everything
Why Relationships Struggle After Kids: Love Didn’t Fail — Systems Did
It’s not you. It’s the pressure.
Who This Book Is For
Real Couples. Real Life. Real Pressure.