Matthew Vines is not your LGBTQ+ Christian ally
He's a gay man. But as far as acceptance of our rights and place in the church, he might as well be a conservative evangelical.
The Dirtbag Christian
Thoughts on living as a dirtbag polyamorous Christian in a dirtbag world.
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What to do when your loved one comes out as polyamorous
I've written for years about what to do when you come out as polyamorous to your family. Here's some advice for those on the receiving end.
My big, fat, anti-AI post, once and for all.
There's no ethical way to be pro-AI in a U.S. context. I'm not going to dance around the subject any longer. Stop using AI if you consider yourself anti-capitalist or even just progressive.
Ten years of polyamorous parenting, so far
People hate polyamory, but they hate polyamorous parents the most. Here's what my experience has been like.
Lindy West’s non-monogamous relationship isn’t about you
And stop throwing around the words “gaslighting” and “abuse” and “coercive relationship” before they have no meaning left.
In the Weeds: A (kind of) sobriety journey from the only substance I've ever had a problem with
The marijuana industry is about to take off in Virginia. Just in time for me to give it up completely.
Masters of War
God is watching. Bob Dylan’s lyrics ring more true now. The time for revolutionary action is now.
Masculinity, Christianity, and 'Little House on the Prairie' on International Men's Day
Are there some old-school values that might save men from themselves?
You Should Start Reading Poetry
The news can wait. Your game will still be there. Social media feeds never end. Read a poem.
On Made-Up Mental Illnesses
Friendship, misery, and what's choice... or not