The role I learned early—and never outgrew

I came across this photo of myself from high school recently in a Facebook group. It’s originally from my yearbook.

I’m wearing a headset, holding a clipboard, and looking intensely focused—not because I was performing, but because I was stage managing a variety show. Calling cues. Watching timing. Making sure the people under the lights could do their thing.

I loved that role.

I didn’t need to be onstage. I wanted to be close enough to the action to understand it—and far enough back to see how all the pieces fit together.

What I remember most is the responsibility: if I missed a cue, someone else would feel it. If I stayed steady, they could shine.

Looking at that photo now, it makes perfect sense that I do the work I do.

As a book coach, I work in the wings.

I listen closely.
I watch for pacing.
I help writers trust the structure beneath their work so they can step forward with confidence.

My clients are the ones onstage—bringing their experience, their ideas, their hard-earned knowledge into view. My job is to support that moment, not compete with it.

Some people are energized by the spotlight.
Some of us are energized by making sure the spotlight works.

I figured out which one I was a long time ago—and I’ve never wanted to switch roles.

If you want someone "in the wings" as you move through manuscript development, get in touch. I have monthly book coaching available to keep you on track with your goals, to provide feedback...and to write a book you're proud of when you step into the spotlight.

It’s not a challenge challenge, actually.

Instead, it’s a focused, practical way for nonfiction and memoir writers to return to their manuscript, restore clarity, and decide what comes next — without pressure or starting over.

It takes place within my writers’ community, Writing What’s Possible.

• Two weeks, 7 reflective prompts.

• On your own time.

• Share — or don’t. It’s up to you.

Reconnect with your book and be excited again.

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