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Cosmic Wishes · Jun 16, 2026

Yaysayers Wanted

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Brownell Landrum · Cosmic Wishes

It’s so easy - and lazy - to be a Naysayer. To tell friends not to take that risk. Naysayers risk nothing by telling others not to do something. If they listen and don’t make the move, Naysayers can always say, “You dodged a bullet” without ever having to acknowledge the possible opportunity that was missed.

I don’t know about you, but I would rather have friends who tell me, “I’ll be there with champagne. Or tissues.”

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We’ve all heard the stories. People near the end of life telling regrets about the things they didn’t do. I wonder: How many are because they had too many Naysayers in their life?

As a storyteller, one of the most powerful tools we have is the concept of “What if?” I even have an activity in The Hero’s Playbook on this concept.*

Many stories start out as “What if…” For a writer, this can open up crazy new worlds.

  • What if there is a team Upstairs helping us navigate our lives? (A Love Story to the Universe).

  • What if a famous couple from history is reincarnated today to fulfill a prophecy that will change the world? (We Meet Again).

  • What if there’s a school on a remote island for kids to hone fantastical, yet real-world abilities, like animal communication, precognition, and more? (INSPIRITORS)

These are just a few of the novels/screenplays I’ve written. Now, let’s take that “What if” into our own lives.

Into YOUR life?

What are the “what ifs” in your life?

  • What if you had called that person when you were missing them?

  • What if you had written that book you’ve been thinking about for years?

  • What if you had taken that trip?

Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments.

One of my favorite concepts I write about in my books is something I call Reverse Optimism. I’ll get into that in another blog article. For now, let’s circle back to the two concepts in this article: Naysayers and What ifs, with the next obvious question:

What if you had fewer Naysayers - and more Yaysayers- in your life?

To download this page from The Hero’s Playbook, go here: https://brownelllandrum.com/blog-bonuses/

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