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It-Is-That-Deep · Apr 2, 2021

Racism or Sex Addiction: Why not both?

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SheChe · It-Is-That-Deep

I received a reply from a male coworker who wanted feedback on some thoughts and struggles he had towards the Atlanta health spa shootings. I tend to veer away from conflict, and was too emotionally exhausted to give it a well thought out response. Below are his points and my spoon-full-of-sugar response.

  • He hopes this comes across in the right tone and concern

  • He believes that any man or woman is made in God's image, regardless of race

  • He feels a misrepresentation of what happened in Atlanta

  • Those horrible actions are being used to try and fuel more race-driven initiatives

  • The killer was driven by sexual addiction and a warped view that those killed took away his "purity.” 

  • He’s been struggling with: "does it matter what the killer’s reasoning was?"

  • Should they be held up as "racially driven murders" when it doesn't seem that's the case?

  • Shouldn't the focus be on his sexual addiction and obvious mental disturbances?

My response:

  • My opinion is that while his reason is sex addiction, he chose to go somewhere where the women were Asian.

  • It enforces a narrative that Asian women are weak and disposable. 

  • If not explicitly motivated, I believe that racial factors were [at least] an implicit part of his choice. 

  • The fact that it’s implicit is even more challenging, requires even more attention to root out the causes.

  • So, I think we are right to draw attention to it. It’s not gonna feel like surgical precision, but I think all humans deserve better. That’s why we are talking about race.

His response:

  • Thanks, appreciate the reply. Great perspective 

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