I received a reply from a male coworker who wanted feedback on some thoughts and struggles he had towards the Atlanta health spa shootings. I tend to veer away from conflict, and was too emotionally exhausted to give it a well thought out response. Below are his points and my spoon-full-of-sugar response.
He hopes this comes across in the right tone and concern
He believes that any man or woman is made in God's image, regardless of race
He feels a misrepresentation of what happened in Atlanta
Those horrible actions are being used to try and fuel more race-driven initiatives
The killer was driven by sexual addiction and a warped view that those killed took away his "purity.”
He’s been struggling with: "does it matter what the killer’s reasoning was?"
Should they be held up as "racially driven murders" when it doesn't seem that's the case?
Shouldn't the focus be on his sexual addiction and obvious mental disturbances?
My response:
My opinion is that while his reason is sex addiction, he chose to go somewhere where the women were Asian.
It enforces a narrative that Asian women are weak and disposable.
If not explicitly motivated, I believe that racial factors were [at least] an implicit part of his choice.
The fact that it’s implicit is even more challenging, requires even more attention to root out the causes.
So, I think we are right to draw attention to it. It’s not gonna feel like surgical precision, but I think all humans deserve better. That’s why we are talking about race.
His response:
Thanks, appreciate the reply. Great perspective
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