Everyone likes being a little bit altered during sex. That’s half the reason I used to drink. When I had a little social lubricant in your system, the deeply unsexy neurotic parts of me felt (at least) a few feet further away. All my insecurities, my trust issues, the running commentary in my head about whether my stomach looks weird from this angle, they temporarily clock out.
The problem with alcohol is that it’s a blunt instrument. It’s like breaking down a wall with a wrecking ball, you’re going to undoubtably fuck up the house. The same chemical helping you get past your inhibitions is also numbing the pleasure on the other side of them.
It’s why, after I got sober, I became fascinated by hypnosis in erotic settings. I still wanted access to that feeling of letting go, but I wanted to get there by going deeper into my body instead of further away from it.
So below is my guide to using hypnotic trance to heighten your sexual experiences:
What you get behind the paywall:
How to guide someone into trance using simple suggestions
A roadmap to my favorite hypnosis techniques on youtube
How to customize hypnotic suggestions to match your partner’s sensory style
Using trance to heighten body awareness and physical sensation
Bringing trance into foreplay without making hypnosis feel like a separate activity
Why “paying attention” may be the most erotic skill hypnosis teaches
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