[REPOST] Still True: A Pause to Appreciate Life

I first wrote this piece months ago, so if you’ve been around a while, you may have read it (but I’ve also given it a little refresh!). If you’re new here, I hope you enjoy it. I’m sharing it again because the funny thing about slowing down is: I keep forgetting to do it. Which is exactly why I’m dusting off this piece from a while back — a little nudge I clearly still need. Maybe you do too.

I came across a word recently that stopped me in my tracks: slowmaxxing.

Apparently it means embracing a slower pace of life, directly at odds with hustle culture. Example: I’ve been slowmaxxing my mornings lately, taking time to make a pour-over and cook breakfast at home.

It feels a little like the antidote to everything that tells us to be “go, go, go.”

It’s easy to get swept up in the whirlwind of work, responsibilities, and endless to-do lists. We’re so often focused on what’s next that we forget to savour what’s right in front of us.

But slowing down, even for a few moments, can help us reconnect with ourselves and notice the beauty around us. Sometimes, that’s all we need for a little pocket of wonder.

And one of the simplest ways I’ve found to do that is with a cup of coffee or tea.

We live in an era where productivity is treated like a badge of honour (don’t get me started on hustle culture!). The pressure to stay busy can feel relentless. We’re always rushing, always moving, often forgetting to breathe.

(Pause here. Unclench your jaw. Drop your shoulders. You’re welcome.)

Lately, more and more people are recognizing the importance of slowing down. Not an easy thing for someone like me, who always feels the urge to be “on the move.” But when I actually stop, I notice the small things again — the sound of birds at dawn, the warmth of sunlight on my skin, even the ritual of making coffee.

That’s why I love mornings so much. Even on weekends, I’m up by 6:30 or 7. Those early hours give me a little peace: some yoga or meditation, then a comforting cappuccino to ease into the day.

Making a cup of coffee or tea is one of the most accessible mindfulness practices there is.

For me, coffee is both ritual and reward. It’s mine and my husband’s “thing.” We don’t drink alcohol, so weekend coffee outings at a local café (usually with a treat) are our shared joy. During the week, it’s my Nespresso and milk frother at home, or the espresso machine at work. And after a morning run? That first cappuccino is heaven.

The act itself can be grounding. When I make tea, the boiling of the water, listening for the kettle’s whistle, watching the tea steep, or taking that first slow sip. When you give yourself fully to the moment, it becomes its own kind of meditation.

Boosts Mental Clarity — Whether it’s the caffeine in coffee or the calm of herbal tea, pausing for a drink helps clear mental fog and reset your mind.

Encourages Self-Care — Carving out time for a warm drink is an act of kindness toward yourself. It’s a small way of saying, “I matter, too.”

Fosters Connection — Sharing coffee or tea deepens bonds, whether in conversation or comfortable silence.

Enhances Mindfulness — The sensory experience — the warmth in your hands, the aroma, the taste — roots you in the present moment.

Slowing down doesn’t mean a full lifestyle overhaul. It’s about weaving small pauses into everyday life. A mindful five-minute tea break, an unhurried coffee in the quiet of morning, or simply noticing the stillness in between tasks.

These tiny rituals don’t just slow us down, they open us up. They give us a chance to reflect, recharge, and remember what it feels like to really be here.

So next time life feels like a hamster wheel, step off. Brew a cup. Sip slowly. Savour the stillness.

Because it’s in these simple acts of mindfulness that we come alive.

I’ll be with you in spirit, coffee in hand.

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