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Nectar Drops from Dr. Caite · Jun 30, 2026

Life wisdom from BDSM: How pushing the pain button leads to more pleasure ⛓️

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Part 2 of the Pleasure Paradox content this month. Listen to the previous episode for more context.

How we keep our brains healthy in a world of cheap dopamine and what actually helps with a happiness hangover.

Slow dopamine sources: Anything that requires EFFORT to get the reward.

  • Walking in nature

  • Strength training

  • Hiking

  • Yoga

  • Breathwork

  • Meditation

  • Gardening

  • Cooking from scratch

  • Reading a book

  • Journaling

  • Learning a new skill

  • Practicing an instrument

  • Making art

  • Writing

  • Completing a meaningful project

  • Organizing your home

  • Cleaning a space

  • Building consistent routines

  • Working toward a long-term goal

  • Saving money

  • Growing a business

  • Deep conversation

  • Quality time with friends

  • Slow sex

  • Volunteering

  • Prayer or spiritual practice

  • Spending time in sunlight

  • Cold exposure

  • Sauna

  • Rest after effort

  • Delayed gratification

  • Creating something with your hands

  • Studying a subject deeply

  • Tracking progress over time

  • Keeping promises to yourself

  • Solving a difficult problem

  • Practicing a craft repeatedly

  • Eating a nourishing meal slowly

  • Completing a workout

  • Watching something grow

  • Preparing for a trip or event

  • Building intimacy gradually

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