The Psychology Behind Why You Self-Sabotage When Things Get Good

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever noticed that just as life starts to feel stable, peaceful or good, like maybe a relationship is finally going well, or you’re inches away from a career breakthrough — a quiet unease starts to itch under your skin? Suddenly, you’re picking a fight over nothing, "forgetting" an important deadline, or talking yourself out of the very dream you spent years chasing. It’s…