If you’re exhausted from curating your image, editing your expertise, and presenting a version of yourself that doesn’t match who you actually are, this episode is for you. I will reveal why the mask is protecting you from success, and what becomes possible when you stop presenting and start leading as yourself.
Why the system punishes authenticity and rewards conformity, and why playing along is costing you. I’ll walk you through the research on “covering” and why women, Black people, and LGBTQ+ professionals report hiding parts of their identity at much higher rates. The mask is survival. It’s also what’s keeping you small.
The TV interview that taught me the cost of pretending. I’ll share the 2023 live broadcast where I had the expertise, had the knowledge, had something real to offer and what I did instead.
How to use Joyful Ambition: Alignment and Attraction. I’ll teach you to audit where your external presentation doesn’t match your internal truth, and how dropping the mask makes you magnetic to the right opportunities instead of exhausting yourself chasing the wrong ones.
The women I work with inside Pretty Damn Ambitious they’re redefining ambition on their own terms. Dropping the masks. Showing up as themselves. Building businesses that don’t require them to hide.
If you’re done curating your image and ready to start building something real as yourself, I’d love to work with you.
This is the exact assessment I used to increase my 2025 revenue by 39%, and the same one women inside Pretty Damn Ambitious use to identify their next breakthrough.
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Harvard Business Review: Research on “covering” shows professionals who downplay parts of their identity to fit workplace norms experience significantly higher burnout and lower job satisfaction. Women and minorities report covering at much higher rates.
Journal of Applied Psychology: Study finding that when women express authenticity at work (speaking directly, showing emotion, challenging the status quo), they’re perceived as less competent and less likable than men doing the same things
Leadership & Organization Development Journal: Research showing leaders who exhibit authentic self-expression are perceived as more trustworthy and competent than those who present a carefully curated image
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