swirlingflight
allofthefeelings

I think it’s really important to talk about how different people have different power fantasies.

For example:

  • For some people, the idea of someone redeeming a villain is a power fantasy.
  • For other people, the idea of a villain being defeated is a power fantasy.
  • And for other people, the idea of a character owning their villainy is a power fantasy.

I would argue a lot of fandom conflicts re: villains come from people being unable to see that their fantasies, which put them in control of a narrative (and all three of these are designed to give the author or reader control of the narrative in different ways) are someone else’s horror stories.

aerialsquid

….this explains SO MUCH.

a conversation in the miracle child chat reminded me of thisfictional characters can't deserve redemption or deserve punishment or anything - they're fiction. they're not real.they are mirrors for us to experience emotions aboutand sometimes that means people Very Don't want the abusive asshole character to change for the betterbecause what that character Is is an obstacle and pain for other characters and changing that muddles the point(and maybe resembles too strongly the way people who hurt others might easily clean their public image)while for another person what that character Is is an example of someone with unresolved damage hurting othersand the fulfilling thing is to see that cycle brokenand for still others there's appeal in seeing them change but only after convincingly demonstrating understandingof what they did wrong and their need to make amendsi don't know how to say this succinctly without just linking this post in there and it looked like everyone wanted to Notso. on my blog (again! for like the third time) for posterity
prosocialbehavior
Anonymous asked:

Thoughts on the wattpad Ao3 situation?

teaboot answered:

[Re: facing new censorship restrictions on Wattpad, Wattpad users are fleeing to AO3, where a portion of them appear to be trying to impose censorship restrictions]

As an abuse survivor whose primary connection to the world was the internet, I first learned that what I was experiencing was abuse by finding a fic I was reading had that tagged.

Then, experiencing a morbid mix of fascination and denial and desperation to contextualize my expriences, I then went through about a hundred different pics with that tag until I could say out loud to myself, “These behaviours are abusive. This is abuse. Thousands of other people have agreed it is not normal.

Once I had it in me to suspect, and once I had the language I needed to pinpoint what was wrong, I was able to branch out. Differentiate between emotional abuse and teasing, psychological abuse and nomal behaviour. How my behaviour emulated these things, and why it was unhealthy, and what I should correct in myself to avoid becoming like the people who hurt me.

I wasn’t being sexually abused, but if I had been, I imagine this discovery process would have been exactly the same. Accidental, then purposeful, then comparing, researching, validating, and seeking help.

As an individual, there’s a lot of shit that icks me the fuck out, that I would find incredibly unpleasant and distressing to read. So I don’t read it. And, would you look at that, there’s a handy-dandy way for me to see up front which stories or poems or whatever include those things, and I don’t have to get blindsided.

People are going to write about whatever they want to write about whether you let them use a website to do it or not, and trying to stop them won’t stop them, it’ll just be harder to find. And for some of us, that messed up, awful, uncomfortable shit was very important to find.

There’s a lot more I can say about censorship. About the implications of coddling the public, stigmatizing real-world experiences, the foot in the door that allows us to spread from one little nasty thing we all agree is bad to everything else from gay sex to cross dressing to boys wearing pink, the obscene to the innocuous.

But.

If I may lower myself to entertain the argument that “Oh, but if you write about these awful things, you must have the heart of an abuser! You must have the heart of a murderer! You must have the heart of a rapist!”

Then I will ask the person who believes this to consider:

Would you rather have a monster who you can’t see, or hear, or sense, who is always there, always thinking its monstrous thoughts, making its monstrous plans, out of sight and hidden away until you happen to stumble across it unexpected in the dark?

Or would you rather it stay outside, in a clearly marked enclosure reading “MONSTER! DO NOT ENTER! MONSTER INSIDE!” where you can see it and avoid it, knowing exactly where it is?

Just, you know. My fucked up freak opinion

lethotep
cryptic-rat-in-your-walls

I love how the entire aroace community latched onto Ryland Grace with no hesitation and have used his character as an outlet for frustrations regarding real-world politics surrounding our identities.

Dr. Ryland Grace was arguably the perfect backup candidate for his mission. Stratt got that right. He had no children, no life partner, no family, not even a dog. All he had was his students and that was enough for him, but that made him replaceable.

Right?

Not only were Grace’s wishes completely ignored, his life and his value as a person was undermined. Simply because he had no one but his students to care for his wellbeing, because he wouldn’t have someone at home waiting for him to come back.

Aroace people deal with similar treatment simply because romance and sex are seen as essential to the human experience, completely disregarding any and all other types of connection. One’s inherent value as a person is not lost when they choose to live life without romantic or sexual relationships. One’s value is simply in existing.

Aroace people know this well, which is why so many have become so attached to Ryland as a character. Many of us see his way of life as the end goal for ourselves, so any one of us would have been seen as just as dispensable, by Stratt and by society as a whole.

Aroace people love Dr. Ryland Grace because his life mattered just as much as everyone else’s, and so do ours.

project hail mary
glitterdustcyclops
bluegrasshole

like i just can’t. 12 kids in a one-room cabin in tennessee, listened to her mom who sang folk songs while working, started singing in church at 6 years old, released her first single at 13, became so wildly loved and famous and rich and still at every turn found ways to give to the poor, the undereducated, gave away so much wealth she made tangible change in the economy. books, covid vaccines, theme park… sang about women’s rights (and wrongs), sang about worker’s rights, sang about poor people, sang about love. collabed with so many incredible artists. acted in movies, received death threats for being accepting of trans people. never fucking missed. all while being the sparkliest, pinkest, blondest, giggliest. unapologetically

bluegrasshole

with a killer rack

dolly parton
bread-clown
batboyblog

2026 Elections, you'd better Vote!

Yes, Election Day is less than 80 days away and it's the first time for Americans to vote on how they feel about Trump 2.0. How you feeling about it? bad? okay! lets do something!

here's a run down of Senate races, if you're able you better get out there, knock doors, make calls, text, send postcards whatever you're able to do!

Senate

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Alaska

Mary Peltola

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Alaska is usually a Republican state but in 2022 Mary Peltola won an upset victory to become the state's only Congressperson, the first Democrat in that office since 1972. Mary is the first and only Alaska Native to have served in Congress. She was narrowly beaten in 2024 when the state went to Trump by 15 points but Peltola lost by only 2. Now she's back running for the US Senate. Peltola is known for her slogan "Fish, Family, and Freedom" pushing to protect Alaska's fisheries, protect small businesses from huge corporations, and reign in an out of control politics in Washington. Peltola is running against Republican Senator Dan Sullivan who unlike Alaska's other Senator has been a rubber stamp for Trump supporting basically everything the second Trump administration has done not even offering fig leaf oversight and happily selling our Alaska.

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Georgia

Jon Ossoff

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Senator Jon Ossoff dramatically won his Senate in a run off taking place just after the 2020 Presidential election. It was an incredibly narrow win in a traditionally Republican state. In his 6 years as one of Georgia's first Democratic Senators in a generation Ossoff has become a powerful voice. His cutting questions during hearings often nail Trump administration figures and offer some of the only oversight for this messy government. Ossoff has consistently fought to protect voting rights in the name of his mentor the late Congressman John Lewis. Going into this year it was widely believed Ossoff faced the toughest re-election of any Democratic Senator. Trump endorsed Republican Congressman Mike Collins is running to unseat Ossoff. Members of Collins staff have been linked to white nationalist groups and Collins himself is under an ethics investigation. Collins is also known for Trump levels of crazy posting on-line. Georgia has a choice between a smart, hard working, forward looking Senator, and a very on-line 60 year old troll. Vote accordingly.

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Iowa

Josh Turek

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Gold medal winning Paralympian and State Rep Josh Turek is running to flip usually Republican Iowa. Since Obama's 2012 win in the state Iowa has made a major and massive shift from swing state to deep red. However Trump's tariff policy has been devastating to farm country leading to a 200% rise in farm bankruptcy. This looks like setting off an earthquake in Iowa politics with Senate, Governor and 3 of its 4 House seats in play. Before running for office Josh Turek was a professional wheelchair basketball player winning gold with the US men's team at the 2016 and 2020 Paralympics. In the Iowa House he's focused on disability rights, fighting to pass a bill to allow disabled Iowans to work while on Medicaid. He's also stood up for farmers and their right to repair their own equipment. He's running against Republican Congresswoman Ashley Hinson. Hinson in Congress has supported Trump's "Big Beautiful Bill" and voted against a War Powers act that would have forced Trump to stop his war with Iran.

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Maine

Troy Jackson

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Maine was the most highly anticipated Senate race going into this cycle. Incumbent Susan Collins is widely understood to be the most at risk Republican incumbent this cycle. For decades Collins ran as a pro-choice Republican only to be the deciding vote for Trump's Supreme Court Justices who overturned Roe V Wade. While Collins makes a show of voting against Trump on key issues it always seems to come right after Senate Republicans already have enough votes to pass it without her. Troy Jackson is the former President of the Maine State Senate, having represented Republican leaning districts in Northern Maine in the State Senate and House. While State Senate President Jackson worked with Governor Mills and State House Democrats to pass laws protecting abortion rights, force insurance companies to cover contraceptives with no out of pocket cost, and ensure free community college for Maine students. If you volunteer to knock doors, who knows you might be knocking with me.

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Michigan

Abdul El-Sayed

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Democratic Senator Gary Peters is retiring setting up a hotly contested open Senate election in one of America's most swingy swing states. Republicans have nominated Trump endorsed former Congressman Mike Rogers. Rogers was also the GOP's 2022 Senate nominee and was endorsed by Trump that time as well. Once a moderate Rogers as embraced Trump's election denial even putting people who took part in Trump's fake electors scheme in leadership roles in his campaign. Rogers has endorsed Trump's tariffs, a trade war with Canada, and Trump's ICE terror immigration policy. Abdul El-Sayed is a long time public health official in the Detroit area. El-Sayed came to national attention for his 2018 Democratic primary campaign for Michigan governor where he centered Medicare for All which is still a centerpiece of his politics in this run for US Senate.

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Nebraska

Dan Osborn

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This is an unusual race in normally deep red Nebraska. Union organizer Dan Osborn is running as an Independent candidate but has been endorsed by the Nebraska Democratic Party. Osborn ran for Senate in 2024 making the first competitive Senate election in Republican dominated Nebraska in a generation. Osborn is running on a pro-Union economic populist message that endorses raising the minimum wage, lowering retirement age, and higher taxes for billionaires. Osborn also endorses a "Libertarian" get the government out approach to social issues like abortion. Osborn will face off against incumbent Republican Senator and former Governor Pete Ricketts. Ricketts is a multi-millionaire co-owner of the Chicago Cubs, who was appointed to fill the Senate seat in 2023 in a sweetheart deal appointed immediately after leaving the Governor's office. As governor he's best known for pushing for Nebraska's first execution since 1997. In the Senate the first 3 bills Ricketts sponsored were abortion bans.

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New Hampshire

Chris Pappas

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Long time Democratic Senator Jeanne Shaheen is retiring setting up an open Senate seat in New England swing state. Congressman Chris Pappas is running to take Shaheen's place. Since New Hampshire has one of the latest primaries (in September) it's not officially official that Pappas will be the nominee but it looks all but certain. Pappas has represented New Hampshire's Republican leaning sea coast district since 2018. If elected Pappas would be the first openly gay male Senator in American history, and the first person in a same-sex marriage to serve as a Senator. Pappas is running on an aggressive anti-corruption platform to hold Trump and his administration accountable. Former Massachusetts Republican Senator Scott Brown is making his second try to become a Senator from New Hampshire in the GOP Primary. However it's much more likely Former New Hampshire Senator John E. Sununu will be the Republican nominee. Sununu's father and brother were both New Hampshire Governors and John served one term as a Senator back during the Bush Administration.

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North Carolina

Roy Cooper

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North Carolina has been a swing state in every Presidential election since 2008 and 4 times its narrowly swung Republican. However this Senate election Democrats are hopeful to finally flip North Carolina blue. Democratic Former Governor Roy Cooper is running for the Senate. Cooper was first elected Governor in 2016 as part of the backlash against North Carolina Republican's bathroom bill which he helped overturn. Cooper fought for years against the Republican majority in the State House to expand Medicaid bring health care to over 600,000 low income North Carolinians. Republican Senator and sometime Trump critic Thom Tillis was basically bullied out of running for re-election by Trump. Trump's hand picked replacement is former Republican National Committee Chair Michael Whatley. Whatley only "qualification" is his support of Trump having never held public office and only ever worked for the Republican Party.

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Ohio

Sherrod Brown

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Over the last ten years Ohio has shifted from a swing state to a deep red state. However like in Iowa Trump's disastrous economic policies look like they're unleashing a political earthquake. Democratic Former Senator Sherrod Brown is seeking a political comeback. Brown was Ohio's Senator from 2007 till losing his bid for re-election in 2024. He was considered one of the most progressive Senators even as Ohio became a Red state. Through his whole career from his time in the US House to being a Senator Brown fought for universal healthcare, even refusing the Congressional health plan for decades till average people could get that level of care. Brown was often ranked along side Bernie Sanders and Elizabeth Warren for his progressive stands on the economy and consumer protections. He's running against Republican Former Lt. Governor Jon Husted who was appointed to the seat when JD Vance resigned to become Vice-President.

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South Carolina

Annie Andrews

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Usually Republican South Carolina's Senate election has been thrown into chaos by the death of long time Republican Senator Lindsey Graham. Even before Graham's death early polling showed an unusually close race. Democrat Dr. Annie Andrews is a pediatrician who ran against Republican Nancy Mace in 2022. She made the choice to run against Lindsey Graham when he voted to confirm FRK Jr as Health and Human Services Secretary. Healthcare and abortion rights have been major issues for Andrews' campaign. The Republican side has been thrown into a messy emergency primary by the death of Graham who had already won renomination in a normal primary before he died. He was replaced by his sister, Darline Graham, who was endorsed by Trump for the job. Many people did not expect Darline to run for a full term, but she is, and faced half a dozen other Republicans. Darline will face off with long time Republican Congressman Ralph Norman in a run off election who called for martial law in 2021 to stop Joe Biden from taking office.

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Texas

James Talarico

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There was a time that Texas may as well have been a synonym for Red State, but starting in 2018 there has been rumblings of a shift. Democrats have nominated State Representative James Talarico. Talarico has centered his faith for a vision of a compassionate Christianity and progressive values. His idea of a more compassionate society includes expanding health care access, immigration reform, protecting LGBT rights, and even stepping away from Texas' traditional oil and gas only views on energy to help protect the planet. Republicans have nominated the most corrupt politician in America not named Trump, Texas' Republican Attorney General Ken Paxton. Paxton narrowly beat being impeached for his corruption by the Republican dominated State Senate. Paxton has also been the subject of a number of criminal investigations. Past his widely understood corruption Paxton is a raving right wing nut, using his office to harass doctors and hospitals in other states over gender-affirmative Care. Paxton also declared he'd defend and try to enforce Taxes anti-gay sex law even though it was ruled unconstitutional in 2003.

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Even if You don't live in one of these states, don't think that means you can sit this election out! Where ever you live there are key races, from School Board, City council, County commission, State House, Governor, and US House! Even if your Senate election doesn't look close, you never know, you lose every election you don't run!

AND! almost every single one of these candidates offers options to phonebank or textbank from anywhere in America for them! you can make a difference where ever you are.

and you can send post cards to voters, here's the organizations that do that

If you plan on post carding, now is the moment, click that link right now and sign up!

And if you're not an American, I'm sorry, do us the favor of reflagging this so more Americans see it? I'll write up a Governor's one soon, good luck, vote, volunteer, fight!

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malaloba
sunsetvisitor

1000xRESIST is OUT NOW on Nintendo Switch 2.

After all the compromises made on Switch 1, this feels like a full circle moment.

PC quality, high resolutions, and haptics have come to handheld. Free for owners of 1000xRESIST on Switch 1. Our thanks to you, experience the game as it was meant to be experienced.

maxknightley
dragongirlsweetie

the thing is that some of the most brazen and clear-cut cases of art theft—cases in which an artwork is actually, concretely taken from the creator—are not only not stopped by copyright law, but actively enabled by it (think tupac, disco elysium, record labels who own a cover of a song copyright striking works with the original, etc.)

sagesariadnd
what-even-is-thiss

Here’s the thing. Refusing to accept a compliment can be mildly insulting to the person you’re refusing the compliment from.

It’s like you don’t believe them or don’t respect their opinion basically.

what-even-is-thiss

I know, I also have self esteem so low that accepting a compliment feels physically painful but basically calling the person who’s complimenting you a liar doesn’t help anybody including yourself.

fanartfrenzy