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Honest Indicators (KPIs)

A couple of honest indicators tell you whether your life is actually okay. Measure the few things that matter.

KPI stands for "key performance indicator." In business it sounds corporate, but the idea is simple and surprisingly personal: pick a few honest signals that tell you whether something important is actually okay.

You can't watch everything. If you tried to track every detail of your life, you'd burn out in a week. The point of a KPI is to choose one or two indicators that act like a dashboard light — when they go off, you know to look closer.

Good personal indicators are simple and honest:

  • Sleep: roughly how many nights this week did I get enough?
  • Money: did I spend less than I made, yes or no?
  • Connection: did I actually talk to someone I care about?
  • Schoolwork or job: is anything overdue or about to be?

Notice these aren't about being impressive. This is stewardship, not productivity. You are not trying to max out a score — you are checking whether the things that keep you steady are holding. A KPI that pushes you to optimize yourself into the ground is the wrong KPI.

The rules that keep this healthy:

  • Pick few. One or two to start. More than three and you stop checking any of them.
  • Make them honest. A number you'd fudge isn't telling you anything.
  • Tie them to a check-in. A KPI only helps if you look at it on a regular cadence.

During your weekly review, glance at your indicators and ask, "Is anything slipping?" If one is red, that's your signal for a small adjustment — the same loop everything here runs on.

For the review habit these fit into, see Building And Maintaining A Routine, and the QSM primer shows how indicators connect to what you actually value.