According to spirituality, each person we meet or every challenge we encounter was setup prior to incarnation. Hardships, toxic relationships, even violence—we were the ones that picked it, created it, and agreed to endure it.
If this was true, doesn’t this literally make all of us…how shall I say this…fundamentally deranged? Who in their right mind would choose pain and suffering? Spirituality tells us that if we’re in pain, it’s our fault for choosing it or for entertaining it.
One of the messages I often tell my students is that the state of their health isn’t always their fault. I say it when I feel it is true. I haven’t been on the receiving end of these messages before but I can feel it offers relief and release of guilt to those hearing it.
Let’s be clear on where spirituality gets its conclusions from: they get them from deluded content creators, “teachers,” or “healers” that know f–all about energy and real healing. Spiritual beliefs aren’t based on anything measurable (hence why they are called beliefs). They are based on someone’s “intuition” sourced from their entity–infected third eye. These messages propagate like viruses across the Internet and are labeled as fact.
Here’s the thing: when we dive into our energy system, we won’t locate actual contracts. No paper could be pulled up and checked to see our termination rights or the events of default. Certainly, there are no definitions of each party’s roles and responsibilities and the consequences of not fulfilling them. Without any of these characteristics that define an agreement, we can hardly call these relationships a “contract.”
Years ago when I used to subscribe to spirituality, I too believed that soul contracts were real. I bought into the idea that I chose the abuse. When I started truly healing, those beliefs fell away. Real healing always destroys what isn’t true, and this idea was one of many that dissolved.
Let’s say a person has a relationship with a narcissist in this lifetime. Energy reading often shows us that this isn’t their first go–round with this particular narcissist. Past life data can be found. Well, why did this person continue to reincarnate with the same toxic individual again and again? Was it because of a contract?
I find that it isn’t because of some contract.
I find that it is because the victim hasn’t done any real healing (yet).
When a victim doesn’t do any real healing, their energy system continues to host the tracking IDs that narcissists deposited into them in order to locate their prey. If you have a package moving through the courier network, you can look up the parcel’s location via its tracking ID. This is how narcissists locate their targets. Sometimes, I call these tracking IDs as implants. They ensure that the two people keep reincarnating together going through the same sick song and dance.
Until these tracking IDs are removed, the narcissists will find us. Spirituality tells people this is because of some contract. But energy reality tells us that the dance continues only because the tracking numbers are still tied to the parcel (the victim). As long as the victim bears tracking numbers, the narcissist will route the parcel (the victim) back to them, lifetime after lifetime.
What if the other party isn’t a narcissist? What if it’s a loving friend, parent, or spouse that you go way back with? Is there a contract in place that brought you two together again in this lifetime?
Well, let me ask you—if you decide to go to the movies with this friend, parent, or spouse, is it because you two signed some contract? Did you two agree that you’ll go together, and the purpose was to learn who likes chemical butter on their GMO popcorn, or see who tends to yak or get up in the middle to go to the bathroom, or fight over who pays for the tickets, or whether to get dinner before or after?
I find that the best way to question spiritual concepts is to simply ask if they make any common sense or logical sense and if they apply in real life.
Whenever spiritual people hit it off, they will declare that they’re in the same soul family, woohoo!
Is that actually true? Let’s look at this.
First, people who declare they are soul tribe members don’t always connect for long. Like any friendship on this planet, they fizzle out. Jealousy develops, their beliefs clash, or one person decides that their vibration has risen and their friend is no longer good enough. One minute they’re soul family, and the next minute they’ve ghosted one another. People go their separate ways, never to speak again.
Second, let’s say Person A and Person B considered themselves to be part of the same soul tribe. Person A believes she is in the same soul tribe as Person C too—they’re spiritual besties and share the same “vibe.” Well, if Person A is in the same soul tribe as Person B and Person C, logically, Person B and Person C should also be in the same soul tribe.
In other words, if you and I are brother and sister, and we have an aunt, obviously, your aunt is also my aunt.
But what do you know—Person B and Person C don’t resonate with each other. They find no commonality or connecting “vibe” between them. So how are any of these people soul tribe members? Does this even make any sense???
As you know, I talk a lot of spiritual seekers’ tendencies to not truly heal. It is because they’re full of beliefs that they’ve categorized as “sacred spiritual truths.” Whatever they deem as sacred spiritual truth, they’re not going to question it, challenge it, and most of all, they’re not going to heal it.
If a person had 1,500 items to heal, but they’ve declared that 1,480 of them are sacred spiritual truths, this person will only end up healing twenty items in their lifetime. Healing twenty items is not much considering how many issues we need to address to become healthy on all levels. That person will leave the remaining 1,480 “sacred spiritual truths” intact, unhealed, and blindly accepted as fact.
Having no attachments to concepts means we won’t sabotage ourselves during the healing process. I’ve had students who cling onto spirituality and it is observed that they don’t heal deeply or greatly. They don’t allow the healing to change them all that much. They only want healing to take their problems away, and then they’ll close the door on progressing further.
In actual contracts, when there is no language addressing a specific issue, the terminology we use is that the contract is silent regarding that issue.
Indeed, the universe is silent on all issues.
The spiritual cannot and do not accept this. They insist that god is waiting for the right moment to bring in all the white hats to save us, and that god is on the side of good people. Let it be known that every war that started in world is because one country believed god is on their side—the good side—and not the others’.
When we work with energy, the predominant perception we gain is that the universe is silent. This contradicts with spiritual teachings because apparently, messages from the universe are coming at us from all sides. Obviously, these messages are written by human beings. I’ve yet to see words appear out of thin air actually written by the universe, not by a person with Canva and a social media account.
If the universe actually had plans for us, here is what we would be able to do:
We would be able to read the plans, as in, we would be able to review the Google Maps directions step–by–step from Point A to Point B. To have a plan literally means there is a plan. There aren’t any gaps left open to chance. Any gaps left open to chance or to choice, by definition, means there is no plan;
We could cancel these plans, as in, we could decide not to get in that car or on that plane;
If we had no choice, then it means we are living inside a controlled matrix. This happens when people don’t do any real healing—such that astrology can predict their moods down to the day and hour because of being programmed by the matrix.
Ultimately, we can glean that universe has no plan because energy shows us the universe is largely silent and void of much of anything.
Every possible outcome was already created since the beginning of time. This eliminates the need for plans. To plan means to engineer a specific outcome. Well, every possible outcome was already created, I repeat.
If anyone was to plan anything in this specific lifetime, it is us. Observe the fact that you can choose to learn real healing right now or you could also just sit there.
To believe that a plan is arranged by the universe means to wash our hands of responsibility. If we wash our hands of responsibility, then we may as well just sit there. And that’s where the majority of the world is today, just sitting there.
Whether we actually chose all of our experiences isn’t black and white. From what I can tell, it may not have always been a clear choice. It could have been a con.
In other words, the family and circumstances we “chose” could have been a con. The tracking IDs have something to do with it. My earliest memory was when I was three days old laying in a crib at the nursery. For hours, I ruminated on how I was conned into “picking” this family. I remember thinking that it was the worst mistake I had ever made. This was my personal experience; it may not apply to anyone else.
Sometimes, I think of the days of when I used to heal others from extra–terrestrial interferences. I remember battling with a particular group and won. After the exchange, I started laughing. The whole of it seemed absurd suddenly. Then I realized that I had beaten the game. The “enemies” laughed too. They congratulated me. We high–five’d and they left.
If we play a game and beat it, is it part of the contract? Is losing part of the contract as well? Let’s understand:
We can play the game if we want
We can not play the game if we want
We can win if we want
We can lose if we want
Spirituality reckons that we’re here to learn life lessons. But in order for a person to learn life lessons, evil has to exist in the first place. The spiritual want to get rid of evil but they want to learn life lessons at the same time. Well, they cannot have both. They need to pick one.
Without demons, there are no life lessons to be had. If people want life lessons, then demons are necessary. They’re the ones doling them out.
Is that a contract then? Personally, I feel it is a con, a setup.
I feel it is a con because to believe in learning life lessons keeps demons alive. This is what they want.
If we stopped believing in learning life lessons and truly healed, demons would lose access to Earth.
How do marketing departments get customers to go to church? They tell customers that they must save themselves—that they’re inherently sinful, dirty, and corrupt, and salvation is required in order to get to heaven. Well, if no one believed that, who the hell is gonna go to church and pay for it also?? Nobody.
Demons invent the reasons that ensure their survival. As long as people believe they need salvation and to learn life lessons, religion and spirituality remain in place.
When we have truly healed and have mastered our energy system, demons leave us alone because they can’t con us anymore. They only go after low–hanging fruit, like any garden variety burglar or spam caller. No demon is going to give the time of day to someone who knows how to heal themselves. It’s too much work for them and they won’t win, so why bother, they think. They move on.
Some spiritualists like to say that demons and angels work together in order to get us healed. In order for this to be true, angels would have to believe that humans are fundamentally idiotic and need to be setup for their own “good.”
Energetically, I feel that angels don’t have the level of consciousness to get involved with human psychologies and affairs. Psychology rests solely with human beings and demons. Angels are hands off and stay away. They have better things to do and they don’t care that much. Why—because all outcomes have already been created. There’s no stake in anything when all outcomes have already been created. Shopaholics understand this. The moment they own the shoes that they want, they don’t desire to buy the shoes anymore because the shoes are already theirs.
There is no “agreement” in place but what we do have are the remnants and open loops of unfinished past life business between us and others. These open loops remain inside our energy systems and psyches until they’re fully resolved and cured. That is the only “contract” we have.
If we ate an apple but haven’t digested it yet, it would appear that we and the apple have an agreement to interact with each other. But when the apple is fully digested and is out of our system, what contract would be left?
The toxic connections that we have from this life or past lives can be seen as undigested apples. Because they’re still sitting in our bowels, the issue of apples remains active and ongoing. It means we have tasks left: to digest the apples and move them out of our system.
The greatest evidence that these relationships aren’t contracts is that we do not need to involve others in order to resolve issues or to heal ourselves. Doing true healing on our own is sufficient and often complete. Ninety–eight percent of healing is healing what we don’t know (professional healers and spiritual seekers do not know or understand this). Healing what we don’t know includes resolving open loops with those we haven’t re–encountered in this life and don’t need to again. The other party need not get involved in order for us to heal.
When healing doesn’t need to involve the other party, then it is not a contract. Our healing never involves the other party anyway. Healing is not a group effort. It is our task to do. We most likely resist healing it and that’s why we want to blame the universe for putting the obstacles there. If we choose not to digest the apple that we ate, is that the universe’s doing?
This content is for adults only, is wholly for entertainment purposes only, and is the personal opinion of Ana Coeur. No part of this content is fact nor is it professional nor medical advice, diagnosis, guidance, treatment, nor suggestion.
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