3 Proven Steps to Shift out of Struggle Frequency

What if creating the life of your dreams didn’t need to take forever?

What if the experience of the things you truly, deeply want wasn’t some fantastical “years from now” manifestation?

The message came to me through the most eloquent download of words a few days ago...

“The things you want aren’t out of reach due to circumstance; it’s due to consciousness.”

This quote came to me as I was pondering how much better life had gotten in such a short time.

I thought about the version of myself who had been manifesting the things I have today, and while what I’m doing now was always technically possible, it was blocked due to limiting beliefs that lived within my own psyche.

As soon as your shift your energy and your perspective, you open yourself up for miracles. (A miracle is simply anything that defies logic.)

Miracle or not, I’ve stopped affirming good things with words of disbelief.. replacing my “shouldn’t be possibles” and “I can’t believe this” with “but of course” and “well duh, everything always works out for us.”

I try to remember this even when the manifestations are so good, it feels like your dreams have quite literally started falling out of the sky.

I know what it feels like to try so hard and get nothing in return.

I also know what it feels like to finally surrender, and align, and to create a life so good, you wouldn’t have even known to ask for it.

In my experience, in order for life to go from a struggle to magically aligned, a few steps are required:

1. You need to decide you’re really done with the way things have been.. it’s surrender, and letting go of attachment to things happening in the exact way you think they should

2. After the surrender comes the release- either in the form or crying, or breathwork or some sort of energy exertion from the body, making space in your nervous system for more by releasing what’s outdated or no longer serves you

3. Start acting on the things your heart is calling you to do.. and say yes to the things that feel right

I’ve shared this story a few times (you can listen on my podcast) of the night in April when everything changed for me.

I had taxes due, and I had no idea how I was going to pay them. At the time, this felt like more defeat and failure than I could bear to manage anymore, and I collapsed.

I recognized that the way I was doing things wasn’t working, so instead of continuing to try so incredibly hard, I stopped.

Then, I sat with the time and space in between the old and the new, instead of rushing into more of action for the sake of action.

The craziest part most amazing part, is that I had more offers and opportunities come through during this time than I did when I was busy forcing the outcome, or desperately trying to manifest my will.

Instead of filling the empty space with a strategy that didn’t work, life was able to fill in the space with things I actually wanted.

In this time, a new business was formed (Hanger Hangups).. clients found me! I applied for one final job in corporate tech as an act of surrender, and when I didn’t get the interview, I committed instead to brand ambassador work, which is how I ended up manifesting the once in a lifetime opportunity of attending all of the NY/NJ World Cup soccer games.

I got invited to read my writing in Boston, and read the first chapter of my book, hand shaking from the vulnerability, only to be met afterwards by a line of people who wanted to speak to me about my words.

I got to go on a life changing trip to Mexico City to celebrate one of my best friends in the world.

AND I finally started to book client work.

I share these examples to inspire you, as someone who went through what felt like a never ending period of struggle and lack, to the best summer of my life.

If I had done things the traditional way, I would have never broken the cycle, or I’d be working a job I knew I didn’t want.

I’m writing this in a chair I’ve sat in many times, located in one of my favorite coffee shops near my old apartment in the West Village.

I’ve sat here when I had two laptops (one for corporate, one for Ziggy), and I’ve sat here with just one, when I had manifested what I wanted, but was still in desperate need of a financial miracle.

Now, I write to you fully at peace and happy with what I’ve created- living a life that feels so authentically me, where I get paid to do work I love, and am surrounded by the best people, where every day genuinely gets better in unforeseen and unexpected ways.

These are the kind of miracles I want to help you create in your own life, and the kind of energy we’re going to be working with in August.

Later this month, I’ll be opening doors to my most popular challenge, Quantum Leap Week.

This challenge started as an experiment I conducted with myself that led to my formal departure from corporate, the end of my final situationship and start of the adventure of a lifetime.

Make sure to keep an eye out for doors when they officially open, but I wanted to send this to help you start the challenge the notion that you’re stuck, or things will never change because they haven’t yet.

If you have a dream on your heart, it’s because what you’re dreaming about is truly meant for you. There’s likely a version of yourself whom you are meant to become in the pursuit, and there’s a life for you that is waiting to be actualized.

Special Announcements for August:

Event in Philly- Manifest Your Creative Career Summer Picnic (happening August 16 at 2:30pm)

Event in NYC- Calendar Club Meetup August 23 (join waitlist to save a spot)

Quantum Leap Week Waitlist (we start Monday, August 24- save $111)

xoxo,

Allison