Some of the best men I've known have been the gentlest. They were mountain-movers who weren't afraid to cry on front porches. They got in your lane and showed up without being asked. When surrounded by this debate and changing narrative on modern masculinity, one truth stands timeless: the profound impact of men who lead with both strength and kindness.
Though it feels far away, motherhood strikes me as a beautiful chance to raise boys who might grow into men like the ones who shaped me.
I Want to Raise Boys
I want to raise boys, rambunctious little boys. Boys with scraped up knees and bruised feelings that melt into thin air at the touch of an apology or a kind word. They'll be tough, rough and tumbling through dirt and over couches into the arms of those they love. Running around with sticks and stones in the woods location unknown until they are sitting at the table in front of hearty bowls of soup and thick slices of bread with cold butter ready to tell tall tales of imaginary worlds they conquered on a Tuesday. I want to raise boys. Boys who give the biggest hugs the sloppiest kisses and the hardest punches straight to the nose when deserved. Boys who open doors and lean out windows with a glint in their eye just to say hi as you walk by. Who say thank you and please or how can I help? to friends and grocery store clerks and little old ladies and mailmen and other boys they don't need to impress. Boys who think for themselves but not much of themselves— they may be quiet but they will not be shy or timid to say the things that other boys may laugh at, quick to sympathize or simply let a tear be cried. I want to raise boys, boys who grow up to be men. Men who know when it's time to not be a boy any longer.
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