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Actualized Elders · Jul 7, 2026

Quit pretending that you aren't in charge.

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Tom Volkar · Actualized Elders

If you aren’t creating your own reality then who is?

No one else is even remotely responsible for the quality of life you’ve been leading. You know this truth. Others can influence you, but it’s all up to you whether you accept their influence or not. So if there’s even a hint of blaming others in your being - let it go now.

You are 100% responsible for the life you’re living. You don’t have to like it but you do have to accept it as fact.

Do you see how wonderful this is? Since you’ve created all of your life then you and only you can uncreate it and recreate anew. You are limitless in your ability to create desired change in your own life.

A powerful place to start is letting go of all that you are not. Fearlessly answer this question.

“Where have I been leaking my life force energy by aligning with a story about myself that isn’t true?”

If you tell the truth to yourself about yourself it’s likely that your answers will reflect some darker energies and habits that don’t make you proud of yourself. That’s okay. Be proud of yourself for facing these draining habits and mindless distractions.

Only you can truthfully answer that question about your life. So stop looking for your truth outside of yourself. Instead go within where your greatest guidance awaits and ask …“What could my limitless self do next?”

One thing that we all can do is to cease doing what does not bring us alive with joy and fulfillment. I know that’s a high standard but you can honor it. Know that by letting go and creating that vacuum new possibilities will rush into fill the space.

These organic possibilities arise in your consciousness for a reason. That reason is for you to boldly declare a fresh start and then follow-through where you’ve previously hesitated. Waiting is not an option, delay only morphs into reasons not to act. Instead boldly declare this truth.

“I am in charge of creating my life and I only choose thoughts, feelings and actions that bring me alive!”

What brings you alive? Are you willing to claim it now?

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