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42 Sidenotes · Jul 23, 2026

Shattering the silence

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Marjan Venema · 42 Sidenotes

Time flies. When you’re having fun and when you’re not but simply busy.

When I announced Deliberately Difficult & Laughing, I said 42 Sidenotes wouldn’t be going anywhere.

And it won’t. It’s still on my mind. Still alive. Very much so, actually. I have plenty of ideas now that I’m returning it to its original brief:

Multifaceted, opinionated observations, answers, and questions on life, the universe, and everything. Sharing the knowledge, experience, and insights I’ve gained living with a, for 60+ years undiagnosed, neurodivergent brain in a neurotypical world.

That’s very broad. Intentionally so.

Over the two and a half years I’ve been writing on 42 Sidenotes, I’ve actively resisted the common blogger advice to niche down.

As a result, the topics have been…, well, all over the place.

No rhyme or reason to them except that they piqued my interest at some point, or simply entered my mind when I sat down to write.

I figured that this would, eventually, attract like-minded and like-interested people.

And that they’d find value in it. Coz providing value is absolutely what I aim for with every single article. If not through practical insights and tips, then through entertainment. (Yes, Nina may become a guest author here!)

Anyways, all of the above is my longwinded way of saying that I’ve finally accepted that I do need to niche down. At least somewhat. Not as much as Deliberately Difficult & Laughing is, but quite a bit more than before.

So, I’m asking for your help. Your input and feedback.

I would be over the moon (and back) when a you would share your thoughts with me.

For example:

  • why you subscribed to 42 Sidenotes

  • what attracted you to it (and was that before or after the quiet shift to what will now live on Deliberately Difficult & Laughing)

  • what surprised you about it

  • what you like and what not

  • what you’d like to hear about more, and what less

Not asking you to answer them all (though I’d love it if you did!).

But do hit reply and share your thoughts.

Hearing from readers makes a big difference to me and to 42 Sidenotes!

So take the opportunity and influence what I will be covering soon.

By the way, if talking is more your thing than writing, feel free to send me a voice message. You can record one here (or any other similar app or service) and share the link with me by hitting reply on this message.

Live long and prosper.

Read the original on 42sidenotes.substack.com

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