How Much I Hate Compliment Fishing and Low Self-Esteem

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There are some things that really irk me, and one of them is compliment fishing especially when paired with low self-esteem. I know many of you struggle with low self-esteem, and that’s completely valid. But the people I’m talking about are those who treat compliment fishing like a full-time job.

You know the type: “I look ugly, right?” Trust me, I won’t be able to convince you otherwise. Why? Because you’ve already convinced yourself that you look ugly. No amount of reassurance from me will change your mind.

There’s nothing wrong with struggling with low self-esteem we all have moments of doubt. But constantly bringing yourself down just to get compliments? That’s a very bad habit. It’s draining, it’s unnecessary, and honestly, it doesn’t help anyone not even you.

And honestly, the more you rely on others’ opinions to feel good about yourself, the more power you give them over your happiness. Stop letting likes, compliments, or approval dictate how you feel. Learn to validate yourself first — celebrate your wins, embrace your flaws, and remind yourself daily that you are enough.

With love

From Temii💗