Don’t get us wrong - it is not easy to be optimistic nowadays. But if you are cynical you will continue to fail.
If you believe everyone is out there “to get something” from you that means this is what you yourself truly believe is the “true nature” of humans.
Your mind is stuck in a negative feedback loop.
If you are negative about the helpfulness of others it is most often because you aren’t helpful yourself.
Break this negative belief system. It is significantly harder to bring someone up than it is to attempt to drag someone down.
You are wasting your time. If you cannot work up the courage to cold email, cold phone call, walk up to a girl and say hello, then you don’t deserve anything.
If you’re not failing you are losing.
You need to fail. No failure no growth, no growth no improvement, no improvement no happiness, no happiness and you’re on a downward spiral.
The harder you work the luckier you get.
No one cares about you.
Repeat after me, no one cares about you.
The only way someone will care about you is if you help them or you add value to their life in some way.
The truth is in order to become important you must become of value at that point you can give back to people who will undoubtedly help you in the future as well. Everyone wins.
If you are 18 years old and you believe spending the $5K you have saved up in stocks is a good idea - you don’t deserve to be rich.
If you are young the most important business you must invest in is yourself.
Build equity in your brain. A few extra thousand dollars investing in yourself to learn how to code, learn a language, read books will outweigh the $350 a year you earn by doing nothing.
If you want to become rich with no risk, please leave this website because the truth is hard work and risk are the only ways to make money, if you believe in guaranteed success with no hard work or risk we know who you are.
This is usually similar to cynicism but is even more apparent. Be honest with yourself:
If one of your close friends was asked in confidence under oath if you are optimistic or pessimistic what are they going to say?
If you know in your heart the answer is pessimistic you need to change your life today.
Do you look up to anyone who is a captain complainer… All signs point to no.
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